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IU PACE THIRTY TWO I Jewels, Bows Perk Up tny uo ii i ourseir nairao 1 jMV' IfftSiSSglcllllSI i iMMmmimmm 'L Personal Mention John P. Manzl II, i student at the University of Buffalo, and Miss Nancy Manzl, a student at the Academy of the Blessed Sacrament, Goshen, spent the week end with their parents, Mr. and Mrs. P. Manzl Millbrook.

John It. Woodward, son of Mr. and Mrs. Lyle B. Woodward, 34 Woodland has been named to the Dean's List at the State University College at Canton.

He aistr nas pledged Alpha Thcta uamma fraternity. POUGHKEEPSIE JOURNAL WEDNESDAY. FEBRUARY 17. 1965 Methodist Senior Choir To Conduct Smorgasbord Dr. Goodman Woman Feels Need re BUSY YOUNG MOTHER styles her own hair with little effort.

Dramatic hairdo sketched here is by stylist John Christie to set off cocktail dress. Deep, swing type bang caresses the entire right temple. Top hair is back combed for height at mid crown. Comb back of hair straight down. Accent hair with colorful satin bow at back of the crown.

This may be petite or large and flowing. By Alicia Hart The occasional night out may be a great treat for most mothers of young children. Often, though, it can prove exhausting. Just the thought of how to dress and what to do with your hair creates a tizzy of a problem. Here are some tips to ease you Into a relaxing evening looking well groomed: If you do your own hair, have it sparkling clean, for long hair, try back combing the crown and pin oils In place with a gay satin bow.

Select a shade that gives dramatic contrast to your dress. Slightly more formal is a jeweled velvet bandeau which you can get inexpensively in a five and dime or department store. Simply comb your hair straight back from the forehead and slides and slip on, the bandeau. Usually a necklace or large jeweled pin will be all the jewel ry you need with such a bright neadpiece. Another refreshing change for yourjairdo is to tuck abright red carnation, without foliage or fern, into your hair on one side.

Brush your hair whether it is short or lone to one side of the head and place the flower of your choice in your hair where it looks best for you. Even simpler to do if you feel you are ail tnumbs with hairstyling, dust your hair with silver and gold sprinkles. Just a word of caution: Keep your hair style simple when you use jewels, flowers or bows. Otherwise, it will have a cluttered, bird's nest look. Wves ToHearofNSO Mrs.

Richard Long, group worker at the Main Street Center of the Neighborhood Service Organization, will be the guest speaker at a meeting of the Wives of the Young Women's Christian Association, 8 o'clock tonight at the YWCA building. Mrs. Long's topic will be the new pre school pro 1 gram and the program for girls aged nve to 12 at the center. Mrs. Long also is a member of the executive committee of the Dutchess County Committee of Economic Opportunities and of the membership committee of the National Association for the Ad vancement of Colored People.

Hostesses for tonight's program will be Mrs. Robert Logan and Mrs. George Sherban. Knute Larson, carrou is receiving treatment at St. Francis' Hospital.

Linda, Susan and Laurie Anne Hasbrouck, daughters of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Hasbrouck 583 Dutchess Turnpike, have returned home after undergoing surgery at St Francis' Hospital. Col. and Mrs.

R. A. Young, Millbrook, recently spent a two week vacation in Hawaii. Mrs. Clara E.

Phillips, Wap pingers Falls, is a patient at Yas ser Hospital. Mrs. Harvey Armstrong, executive director, and Mrs. Marjorie Williams, district adviser of the Dutchess County Girl Scout Coun cil, attended a three day con ference in New York City last weekend. John Gallagher, 23 Taylor Ave is receiving treatment at St.

Francis" Hosptial. Vassar Graduate Engaged to Be Wed Mignrnh Sherman Appleton, daughter oTtors. UenSherman Merrtman, Pompano Beach, end William Charming Appleton, Stuart, is engaged to be wed to Joseph Gardner Weber. Mr. Weber is the son of Mrs.

Joseph Weber, Barberton, Ohio, and the late Dr. Weber. Miss Apple ton, a member of the English fac ulty at Smith College, is a graduate of Vassar College and received her doctorate from Ohio State University. Mr. Weber is a graduate of Princeton University.

He also studied for two years in France and received his doctorate from the University of Illinois. He is an assistant professor of French at Northwestern University. GaynorMaddoz Let's Eat Calorie conscious and budget minded gourmets will welcome this mock pecan pie recipe. Maybe it doesn't taste exactly like the pecan pies you get in New Orleans but it is remarkably similar to the genuine product. The oats give it the traditional chewiness and contribute to the nutty flavor; they also keep costs uuwn.

is very easy 10 maxe trom these tested Directions. If you are not worried about calories, then dress up the pie with dollops of sweetened whip ped cream. MOCK PECAN PIE (Make one 9 inch pie) 3 eggs Vi cup dark com syrup ycup butter or margarine melted Vi teaspoon salt 1 cup quick rolled oats, uncooked i cup sugar hi cup coarsely chopped pecans Heat oven to moderate (350 degrees). Beat eggs until foamy. Add corn syrup, sugar, salt and butter.

Stir in oats and nutmeats. Pour into pie shell. Bake in preheated oven (360 degrees) 45 to SO minutes or until center of pie is firm. Cool Newcomers' Club Schedules Luncheon Dr. Elizabeth B.

Drewry. di rector of the Franklin D. Roosevelt Library, Hyde Park, will be the guest speaker at tomorrow's luncheon meeting of the Newcomers' Club of the Young Women's Christian Association. The event will be conducted at 12:30 o'clock at The Kitchen; Hyde Park. Dr.

Drewry, who recently received the 1965 Federal Woman's Award, has been director of the library since 1961. A native of Washington, D.C., she received her bachelor and master's degree from George Washington University, and her Ph.D. from Cornell University. Prior to joining the National Archives Establishment, Dr. Drewry was chairman of the history department at Perm Hall junior college.

Guest artists for the luncheon will be Mrs. F. W. Schuster and Charles Lazarus. Nursery care will be provided at St Timothy's Lutheran Church, Hyde Part Arlington Seniors Displaying Art Work Members of the senior art class at Arlington High School are conducting a show, now through Feb.

26, at the Hand Gallery. Among the works on exhibit are paintings, collages, prints, drawings and mobiles. Tone Up With Walks The tendency to spend more time indoors during winter shows in women's complexions and thickening waistlines. A brisk walk each day, if only around the block, is healthful. Try it and see how it chases away mid afternoon fatigue and facial and figure bumps.

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lY' Cf 'i i 5 IK. yxXCrr si i if? JVr CX4 fgll8ll 111m m1Vi? 6 itil "lT iXX44 I ffiHMrlV "I fTTfi'l 1 i tlf if 1 I 4699 W'm DEAR Da GOODMAN: I married five years ago to a man or a different faith whom I loved with all my heart From my pre tous maPFiaae wnloh ci divorce) I have a daughter who this.year begins a nursing career. When I remarried, my daughter and I went to another city to bve because my husband worked there. My new husband turned out to be almost com pletely selfish, sadistic, conniving, a liar, dominating, possessively jealous, moody and with a terrible temper. He is also charming and witty.

I went from hell to heaven and back again, according to his moods. After four years of this, I left him, took an apartment in our old town and went to work. My dau ghter and I share the expenses. I knew when I left him that. In spite of everything, I still loved him.

But I did what I had to do. He cried and begged me not to leave, promising me that things would be different but I know they won't. He is what he is. He called and I saw him for two months after the separation. Now he doesn't call any more.

But he wanted me to come back. My daughter will not go back to live with him because he was cruel to her, jealous end resentful. She was always respectful and friendly toward him, but he rejected any and all attempts to be friends. I feel my place Is with my daughter until she gets mar ried. She is willing to have him move in with us, because she sees how unhappy I am.

I couldn't leave my daughter to go back to him. I'm torn between both of them. I know my hus band's no good I'd give my soul to forget him but I can't I need advice so badly. Please help me save my sanity. Mrs.

Dear Mrs. Your letter re minds me of the lines in the great Russian playwiright Anton Chekhov's play, "The Cherry "I have a stone around my neck, but I love the stone." So many women have this need to suffer in their love. You have had two experiences of It it snould be enough. But will it be? wnat masochistic (those who love to suffer) need to learn is why they act the way they do. In childhood they may have experienced rejection from harsh or neglectful parents.

All ther life Jong they expect fur ther rejection, and by expecting it subtly invite it. This is what life is, according to their belief rejection. Like the bird who bruises its breast against the sharp stake, they return again and again to the mad ecstaCy of pain. Such women tempt the cruelty Instinct in men. Their masochism is in collusion with male sadism (the desire to inflict pain).

Each continues in the relationship for the perverse satisfactions it offers. You too want to return to your mean, cruel hearted husband to experience the pleasure of hurting you. You could go on this way for the rest of your life. Do you want to? I would like to suggest that you try to bet some psychological counseling, either from the Family Service Association of America or from the local branch of the Family Service of your religious group. Your minister has information about this.

As you learn to rise above your need to experience suffering, your present husband might behavebetter toward you? This way you would benefit horn as well as yourself. And of course your daughter would profit, too. Mrs. Roy C. Raymond, president of the Senior Choir of the Community Methodist Church, has made known the appointment of Mrs.

Raymond C. as general manager of the annual smorgasbord planned for March 3 in the church's Fellowship The event will take place from 5:30 to 7:30 o'clock. aides wilL include. Mrs. Raymond, Mrs.

William Ghee and Richard Jacobson, decorations; Mrs. James Thornley, publicity; Mrs. John Beck, dining room, and Mr, Corey, music. Nursery care will be provided. Members of (he choir are Mr.

Corey, director, Mrs. Beck. Mrs. Edward Bahret, Miss Lorna Davis, Mrs. Raymond, Mrs.

Corey, Miss Sandi Owens and Miss Nancy Harmon, sopranos; Mrs. Ghee, Mrs. Bruce Baright, Mrs. Thornley and Miss Marci Kinbrtire, altos; Mr. Jacobson, Robert Banker and George Vail, tenors, and Donald Cassavant and Vernon Harmon, basses.

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Just apply beer to shampooed, rinsed hair before setting in rollers. DEAR MRS. LIGHT I've been especially looking forward to reading your column since my baby is in first grade. I won der what I can do at home to help him? Should I help him with reading? Arithmetic? It's hard to know since methods have changed since my day. What else should I do? Please write a column soon on this subject FIRST GRADER'S MOM.

ANSWER It would take a whole set of encyclopedias to answer your questions fully. Actually, everything you've done for your son since he was bom has helped prepare him for school. In a narrower sense, educational are trips to museums, the zoo and other points of interest In struction in the rules of health and safety is important And do help him with reading and arithmetic, after asking for suggestions from his teacher. Methods haven't changed so much as you may think. While youre concentrating on educational aids, however, don't neglect the most helpful thing you can do; that is, teach your "baby" to behave In their en thusiasm for material aids, even conscientious parents too often overlook the obvious value of dis cipline.

If more children respected authority (by which I mean ob served limits on behavior) and responded to a request the first time it was made, our schools would improve almost overnight. Teachers would have more time to teach; most children would learn more. A child who "acts up" in school isn't fair to himself or his classmates. He takes a disproportionate amount of a teacher's time, attention and energy, leav ing her with frayed nerves and a 'Tvhats the use feeling. If your son behaves himself to the best of a first grader's abili ty, his teacher will be more likely to go the second mile for him.

Basking in her approval, he will like school better, too, and con sequently do better work. Thank you for giving me tne opportunity to sound off on this subject. Your son may be a per fect angel. If so, I hope other parents less fortunately endowed will get my message. With better discipline in the home, many school problems would take care of themselves.

SSSBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBaol vBBSVmiBBBBBBBBBM HVKZw "H5'lsssl jHH iSBBSSSsl MRS. RAYMOND C. COREY Many to Attend Reformed Dinner MEETING THEME "Furniture Arrangements" was the theme of Mondays meeting of the OalrGroveHorne Demon4 stration Unit, in the home of Mrs. Leonard Duckwitz. Noxon Road, Town of Poughkeepsie.

Mrs. Rich ard T. Williams taught the class, after the unit meeting conducted by Mrs. William Jones, unit chairman. Mrs.

Albert Maeder, 45 Flower Hill, Town of Poughkeepsie, made known (hat the first class on "Sewing Screens" will be in April, at her home. Reservations have been listed for the annual congregational dinner of the Arlington Reformed Church, 6:30 o'clock Friday night in the church hall. Ralph Relyea is general chairman of the event and waiters will include WiUard Barton, James Stahlmyer, Charles Doty, Barbara Knicker bocker, Deborah Schubin. Ronald Schubin, Sharron Philips, Susan Fletcher and William Jago. Mrs.

Clifton Smith, dining room chair man, will be assisted by Mrs. Walter Schwalb, Mrs. Lewis Polk, Mrs. Walter Hauver, Mrs. George Staffers and Mrs.

William Bright. Among those planning to attend are the Rev. and Mrs. Benjamin LeFevre, Brother William Mur phy, Mr. and Mrs.

Martin Mac Isaac, Mr. and 'Mrs. Harry Brown, Mr. Staffers, Miss Nancy uouins, Mrs. James Collins, Mr.

and Mrs. Elmer Crans, Mr. end Mrs. Walter Schwalb, Mr. and Mrs.

William Hanlon, Mr. and Mrs. Walter Hauver, Mr. and William Hauver, Mr. and Mrs.

Arthur Holden. Rex Holden, Mrs. Algol Holmstrom, Mr. and Mrs. Paul Jones, Mr.

and Mrs. Edgar Kalble. Mrs. Robert Koz lark, Mrs. Charles Mac Kenna, Mrs.

Irving Mac Candlish, Earl Mac Candlish, Walter Kerr, Mr. and Mrs. Atherton Marshall, Mrs. Leon Mason, Miss Marylou Mowers. Mr.

and Mrs. Vernon Mercer, George Nillson, Miss Doris Nich ols, Miss Mary Overocker. Mr. and Mrs. Richard Phillips, Howard Porter, Mrs.

Gottlieb Prokupek, Mrs. Milton Prokupek, Mr. and Mrs. Relyea, Mrs. Roswell Robinsoni Mrs.

Otis Robinson, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Fletcher, Mr. and Mrs. Theodore Schubin, Mr.

and Mrs. George Schultz. Miss Janet Seism, Miss Gwen Seism, Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Sizemore, Mr.

ana Mrs. Clifton Smith, Alfrei Tenhope, Mr and Mrs. Lester Tubby, Brian and Carol Tubby, Edmund Van Wyck, Mr. and Mrs. Willard Vrooman, Edward Wardell.

Mr. and Mrs. Otis White, Miss Ethel Wickes, Mrs. Ann Postler, Mr. and Mrs.

Charles Wickes, Mr. and Mrs, Ray Wigg, Mr. and Mrs. Ray Yerryr Mr, and Mrs Robert Budd, Mrs. George Andrews, Miss Cinderella uuennero, Mrs.

Carl SnyderrMrs. Frank Buckner, Mr. ana Mrs. Uiester Graves. Mrs.

Charles Smith, Mrs. John Sch malberger, Mr. and Mrs. Paul Zakal, Mr. and Mrs.

Ellsworth Bollinger, Mrs. Willets DeGarmo. Mrs. Kenneth MacGhee, Mr. and Mrs.

Robert Gerth, Miss Florence Gerth and and Mrs. Hugh lYiucKeroocKer. St. James' Couples' Club Plans 'Roaring 20' s' Dance The Couples' Club of St James' Episcopal Church, Hyde Park, will sponsor a "Roaring 20'a Dance Saturday night at the Rogers Point Boat Oub, Hyde Part Mr. and Mrs.

James Coleman are serving as cochairmen for the event Serving on committees for the dance are food, Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Nicholson, Mr. and Mrs. Donald Weber and Mr.

and Mrs. Edward. BlodgeU; decetatjo.nsl Richard Nicholson, Mr. and Mrs. Edward Blodgett; decorations, Richard Nicholson, Mr.

and Mrs. Charles Rod and Mr. and Mrs. Haitze DeVries; publicity and prizes, Mr. and Mrs.

Kenneth McNary; music. Mr. and Mrs. Louis Pells, and tickets, Mr. and Mrs.

Coleman. Among those who have made reservations to attend the dance are Mr. and Mrs. Charles Berrian, Mr. and Mrs.

Herald Herman, Mr. and Mrs. Walter Richger, Mr. and Mrs. George Penny, Mr.

and Mrs. Ray Walk er, Mr. end Mrs. Elmer Van Wagner. Mr.

and Mrs. William Shand, Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Furno, Mr. and Mrs.

Donald Maxim, Mr. and Mrs. Coleman, Mr. and Mrs. James Loughman, Mr.

and Mrs. Ann Landers Solves Problems Dear Ann Landers: Will you tell me why a widow or a divor cee is considered a sure thing by every male I've Kaa the "poor" luck to meet these oast two years? I a 32 year old divorcee who holds a responsible position. I dress in good taste, my necklines aon i plunge and I can talk in telligently about auairs, cooks, art, end music. Im tired of going out with men who think you owe them your life just because they buy you a dinner. I've been called old fashioned, prudish, archaic, mid victorian, sadistic, and masochistic just because I am not interested in extra marital sex.

1 ve heard every line imagina ble, but the one last night was unique. What do you think of a man who wants to take th sad ness out of your eyes? Isn't that incredible? Or am I nuts? McNary, Mr. and Mrs. Donald DISGUSTED rcinuor Mr Mm Unmnll DetU P.D.: A man Who talltS Nicholson, Miss Lynnabout Jakin8 the sadness out of Schellig. Mr.

and Mrs. Nicholson. Mr, and Mrs. Roff, Mr. and Mrs.

Blodgett, Mr. and Mrs. Weber, Mr. and Mrs. John Golden.

Mr. and Mrs. John Pearse, Mr. and Mrs. Devnes, Mr.

and Mrs. Pells, Mr. and Mrs. Hull Way. Mr.

and Mrs. Robert Gilbert Mr. and Mrs. Grant Ferris, Mr. and Mrs.

Rudy Knafeal, Mr. and Mrs. Edward Fuller, Mr. and Mrs. Harry Hillman, Mr.

and Mrs. Michael Milano, Mr. and Mrs. James Logan, Mr. and Mrs.

George Ferenz, Mr. and Mrs. Leslie Decker, Mr. and Mrs. John Hey.

Mr. and Mrs. Vincent Brands. Mr. and Mrs.

Clifford Pitcher. Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Wager, Mr. and Mrs.

John Paul son and Mr. and Mrs. Arthur; Sherwood. E. O.

Gottschling Notes 84th Birthday Edward 0. Gottschling was guest of honor Sunday at a dinner party marking his 84th birthday, given by his daughter, Mrs. Elizabeth M. Lane, Wappingers Falls. Mr.

Gottschling was born Feb. 12, 1881. Invited guests included Mr. and Mrs. Harry B.

Johannesen (Mrs. Johannesen is another daughter with whom Mr. Gottschling lives), Ronald Johannesen, Mr. and Mrs. Richard J.

Roselle, Pleasant "Valley, Miss Lillian M. Lane, Mr. and Mrs. Harry B. Johannesen II, and children, Harry III.

and Linda, Mrs. Elsie Upright, Miss Barbara J. Boss, Miss Dorothy Alulis and Mrs. Nellie Johannesen. DYB Class Meeting Tuesday Members of the Do Your Best Bible Class of the Community Methodist Church will meet at the home of Mrs.

George Waelde, 52 S. Clinton 7:30 o'clock Tuesday night Mrs. Roy H. Ray mond, president will preside, and refreshments will be served by Mrs. Charles Burtis, Mrs.

Fred SeitzrMrsrx Mrs. Cora Van Kueren and Mrs, Hilda Cooper. Shades of the Vinaigrette Even the most expensive perfume fades after it has been worn for a few hours. It's wise to carry a purse flacon of your favorite perfume when you go out for an evening. Since perfume is your most feminine accessory, it should always be with you.

Pre teens Now Go Raffine Topic Listed For Explorer Series Mrs. Constance Jessup will lead a program. "Drama in Song," at tomorrow's session of the Explorer Series at the Adri ance Memorial Library. The program will take place from 4 to 5 o'clock, and is geared for children in grades four, five and six. A lie Brook Designs i iii i in 11111 inn i Mi I II IT fTjII I II HWtiiiiriiJutiw.wiMrWiBMi"iiiiiiiiiMirMwMw I I i 2viMpd iMIMrSfe wPM ia3t2KB HS lsJtf? 4.: llysl MW HMkr' mmsteMmscmmmmi HaBiSBrsarAWSiie, MMW llWMfaiSjCTWaB aRffMwMHllSlkl MwI iTlAl'M I' wJJTOi7Mispi HH1 i IrUMB i i Ml I iiW iEfBBliwi alien your ees is Drobablv lntertprt in putting a little gladness into his own.

Don't lower your standards Doll, but redouble your efforts. There are still plenty of eligible men around. Enroll in an adult education class at the university. Join a great books discussion group, be a volunteer for the political party of your choice. The Red Crosi needs Gray Ladies.

The list is endless. Get going. Dear Ann Landers: My husband comes from one of those families whose motto is "All for one and one for all." This sounds admirable but it has caused noining mil Heartache. In the 18 years we've been married my husband has spent at least half of his spare time helping his brothers and sisters build and repair their homes. In all fairness I should tell you, Ann, that eight years ego when we built our home his relatives pitched in and helped.

We could not have afforded this lovely home otherwise. Last year my sister in law carelessly set their home on fire with a cigarette. Now my husband spends all his snare (imp n. building with the rest of the fam ily. He usually takes our daughter along to play with her cousins.

I sit home alone because my sister in law is a bore. 1 ve considered telline mv hiis. band that since he cninvs hw family so much he should spend all his time with them. Yes or no? CONTEMPLATIVE Dear Con: No. I hate to trot out that tired slogan but it's tailor made "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em." After 18 years your husband is not going to change his attitude toward his family, so you'd better change yours.

Make up your mind You're going to find something to admire in that tribe and go with him" when he goes. Sitting at homebuilding resentment against him ana nis lamily will brine vou nothing but a shattered marriage and infinitely greater unhappi ness. Copyright. 1965, Publishers Newspaper Syndicate Ruth Mfflett We, The Women PRE TEENS have hopped onto the "lady like" fashion bandwagon along with their older sisters. Candy coated pastels highlight these separates.

Cardigan (left) is in jacquard print. Matching flannel skirt swings out in a swirl of hip stitched pleats. Blazer jacket in whits souffle wool (right) is piped in navy and white polka dot blouse has long sleeves. Send daughter smartly to school in this jacket or coat of cozy knitting worsted. Knit from collar down, on cir cuiar'needle jacket coat are each one piece, including sleeves.

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All you men know what a lift you get when the boss nraises youorariobouaveaonepar ucuiariy wen. a promotion or salary increase often follows. Any kind of on the job recognition you get sets you up not only for a day, but for quite a while. Without any recognition you still would have known that you had done a good job, but hearing your work praised is sweet music. If fact, you would soon go sour on the job if none of your efforts were ever noticed.

Yet, if you are like a lot of husbands, it never dawns on you mat your wife needs some sign of appreciation and praise for the job she is doing, and that it must come from YOU. It is mighty discouraging to a woman to paint a room, slipcover a sofa, make curtains, or refinish a second hand chest of drawers so that it becomes a beautiful piece of furniture and have you not even notice. Or worse yet, say without really looking, "Yeah, that's fine," when she shows you what she has done. It' is also discouraging for a woman who puts in long, hard days at ber job never to have her husband tell her be is proud of theinome she hasJ made for him, or the way she handles the children, or that he appreciates what a good manager she is "XonstorThiSTTnenrTJext tlms some recognition at the office sets you up and makes you feel like a million. As you are look about your triumph, stop and ask yourself this question: "When was the last time I told my wife what a swell job she's doing for our own personal 'corporation'? She's just as entitled as I am to be proud." MMMMBMHSIH JOHN LANE STUDIO Portrait PHOTOGRAPHY Bride Family roUGUEErsis; uR 1 2770.