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J8 THE INDIANAPOLIS STAR SUNDAY, DECEMBER 1, 1996 WEDDINGS Barker-Hunt Herri n-Carpenter Clear rules about chores resulted in swift change; Antonio, Texas. The bride graduated from DePauw University. She is a hospital clinic representative for Eli Lilly and Co. Her husband graduated from St. Mary's University and the University of Texas.

He is a research chemist for Dow Chemical Co. Scott-Foster Carolyn Marie Scott and Marvin R. Foster both of Indianapolis, were married Oct. 26 in Mount Olive Missionary Baptist Church. Their parents are Tommie Scott and Minnie Scott, both of Evansville, and Mr.

and Mrs. Casreal Foster of Terre Haute. The bride graduated from Indiana University. Her husband is a freeze-dry operator for Eli Lilly and Co. Smitha-Wiley Rebecca Lou Barker of Muncie and Ian Robert Hunt of Henley-on-Thames, Oxfordshire, England, were married Oct.

19 in St Mary Church, Witney, Oxfordshire, England. Their parents are Chester E. Elizabeth Ann Herrin and Craig Meredith Carpenter, both of Indianapolis, were married Oct 19 in Meridian Street United Methodist Church. Their parents are Mr. and Mrs.

John Q. Herrin of Indianapolis and Fa VA Ml DeHart-Watson She is a receptioniststart-up clerk for Legacy Mortgage Corp. Her husband is an oxygen filltest technician for Inweld Corp. Milatovich-Cherry Athena Milatovich and Bradley John Cherry, both Palo Alto, were married Oct. 19 in Stanford Memorial Church in Stanford, Calif.

Their parents are Mr. and Mrs. Marko S. Milatovich of Speedway and Mr. and Mrs.

Jack W. Cherry of Columbia, Md. The bride graduated from Indiana University. She is assistant professorlaboratory director for Stanford Health Services, Stanford University. Her husband graduated from Shippensburg State and Amer-: ican universities, He is business manager for Howard Hughes Medical Institute, Standford University.

Mosley-Klenotic .7 4 Stephanie Page DeHart of Terre Haute and Mark David Watson of Speedway were married Oct. 5 in St. Luke's United Methodist Church. Their parents are Mr. and Mrs.

Robert DeHart of Terre Haute and Mr. and Mrs. David This is the true story of how my wife, Willie, and I changed two children who "would not lift a finger around the house." When our children. Eric and Amy, were 9 and 6 years old, Willie and I divided most of the household chores between Lisa Anne Smitha and Brian Allen Wiley, both of Indianapolis, were married Oct. 19 in River Glen Country Club in Fishers.

Their parents are Mr. and Mrs. Preston Smitha of Fishers and Mr. and Mrs. John Wiley of Indianapolis.

Mr. and Mrs. Douglas N. Hite of Plymouth and Mr. and Mrs.

Noble D. Carpenter of Warsaw. The bride graduated from Indiana University and its School of Nursing. She is an intensive-care nurse for Wi-shard Memorial Hospital. Her husband graduated from IU and its School of Law.

He is a lawyer with Kroger Gardis Reg as. Kerberg-Franks Parent And Child John Rosemond Watson of Speedway. The bride graduated from the University of Evansville. She is a registered nurse in gynecological oncology for Indiana University Medical Center. Her husband graduated from Indiana State University.

He is a firefighter for the Speedway Fire Department. i I The bride graduated from Huntington College. She is a habilitation trainer for Res-Care Inc. Her husband graduated from Hanover College. He is a supervisor for Allison Engine Co.

Toth-Wood Natalie Marie Mosley of Greenfield and William Andrew Klenotic of Indianapolis were married Oct. 26 in St. Michael's Catholic Church of Greenfield. Their parents are Ouida M. Norris of Greenfield and William and Eliza Amanda Sue Kerberg and Adam Michael Franks, both of Indianapolis, were married Oct.

5 in Holy Name Catholic Church in Beech Grove. Their parents are Mr. and Mrs. Robert H. Kerberg of Indianapolis and Ells-Katterhenry Lacy Renee Ells of Noblesville and Kevin Jay Katterhenry of Carmel were married Sept.

7 in First Baptist Church in Carmel. Their parents are Ron and Clydora Ells of Noblesville and Jim and Karla Katterhenry of Carmel. The couple attends IUPUI. The bride is a preschool teacher for Castleview Baptist Church. Her husband is a customer-service worker for Commercial Parts and Service.

beth Klenotic of Indianapolis. The bridegroom graduated from Purdue University. He is a mechanical engineer for Naval Air Warfare Center. Patrick-Stephens Lisa Ann Toth and David Martin Wood, both of Indianapolis, were married Oct. 19 in St.

Pius Catholic Church. Their parents are Michael and Valerie Toth of Elkhart and William J. and Joann Wood of Indianapolis. to irAiri: Barker of Muncie and the late Norma J. Pugh Barker and the late Frank and Paula Hunt The bride graduated from Ivy Tech State College and attended Ball State University.

She was a unit secretary at Ball Memorial Hospital. Her husband graduated from Henley Technical College. He is head caretaker for the Henry Box School. Barnard-Baker Marcia Ann Barnard and Gregory W. Baker, both of Carmel, were married Oct.

17 in Eagle Creek Grace Brethren Church. Their parents are William and Karen Barnard of Flora and Jeanette Baker of Brownsburg and Dr. Glenn Baker of Sun City West, Ariz. The bride graduated from Purdue University. She is team leader in gift support for Renaissance Inc.

Her husband graduated from Wabash College and Indiana University School of Law. He is senior staff attorney for Renaissance Brown-Patterson 'Jf Kimberly Dionne Brown of Marion and Brett David Patterson of Kokomo were married earlier this year in First United Methodist Church in Marion. Their parents are Ernie and Suzi Brown of Marion and Dave and Brenda Patterson of Brownsburg. The bride graduated from Ball State University. She is a teacher for Eastern Howard School Corp.

Her husband graduated from Purdue University. He is an athletic trainer for Replay Physical Therapy and Northwestern High School. Brown-Weaver Regina Lorette Brown and Andrew Esau Weaver, both of North Hollywood, were married Sept. 14 in Loews Santa Monica Beach Hotel, Santa Monica, Calif. Their parents are Maurice and Betty Brown of Rushville and Lillie Weaver of Indianapolis and Charles Weaver of Mississippi.

The couple graduated from Ball State University. The bridegroom is recording studio transfer technicianeditor for Hollywood Recording Services. Francis M. Franks of Louisville, and Luella J. Franks of Beech Grove.

The bride is a photo lab technician for Wal-green's Pharmacy. Her husband is assistant manager of Washington Square Goodyear Tire Store. Malachowski-Mercer k' i 'MIT Kendra May Patrick of Pendleton and Robert Wayne Stephens II of Indianapolis were married earlier this year in Indianapolis. Their parents are Harold D. and D.

Evelyn Duns-more of Pendleton and Kenneth E. The couple graduated from Purdue University. The bride is a pharmacist for Revco Drug Stores. Her husband is a design engineer for Magnetic Instrumentation Inc. Utterback-Piazza Gahimer-McBride Mary Ann Gahimer and Terry McBride, both of Indianapolis, were married Oct.

13 in Crystal Yacht Club. Their parents are Joe and Alice Gahimer of Anderson and James D. and Alice McBride of Indianapolis. The bride graduated from Purdue University. She is banquet manager for Holiday Inn East.

Her husband graduated from Indiana University. He is a microbiologist for the Indiana State Department of Health. Carol Louise Malachowski of Indianapolis and Michael John Mercer of Herndon, were married Oct. 19 in St. Lawrence Catholic Church.

Their parents are Dr. and Mrs. Robert M. Malachowski of Indianapolis and Mr. and fiv, and Dorothy Patrick of Arlington, Texas, and Mr.

and Mrs. Robert W. Stephens of Indianapolis. The bride is an administrative assistant for Birk Gross Bell Coulter. Her husband is a meter reader for the Indianapolis Power Light Co.

Jennifer Marie Utterback and Douglas Robert Piazza, both of Indianapolis, were married Oct. 19 in St. Christopher Catholic Church in Speedway. Their parents are Norman D. and Emily A.

Utterback of Indianapolis and Hebenstreit-Ponty Mrs. Melvin D. Mercer Jr. of Herndon, Va. The bride graduated from St.

Mary's College and Johns Hopkins University. She is a media planner for W. B. Doner Co. Her husband graduated from St.

Mary's College. He is a financial analyst for Student Loan Marketing Association. Meyer-Anderson Simmons-Ratcliff Ann Maret He-benstreit of Monterey, and Brian Joseph Ponty of Belmont, were married Oct. 18 in St. Charles Catholic Church in San Carlos, Calif.

Their parents are Tom and Judy Hebenstreit of Indianapolis and the them, distributed them over the seven days of the week, posted a calendar on the refrigerator and provided printed directions concerning each chore. "Crime" and punishment People asked, "But what did you do if one of the kids didn't do a chore?" We made sure it didn't happen again. About two weeks into the program. Eric "forgot" to do his Saturday after-lunch chores. I found him outside playing baseball with the other boys in the neighborhood, called him in and confronted him with his lapse.

He; intended to do It later, he said. I reminded him what his mother and I had told him: Chores took precedence over play, and we would not look kindly upon having to repeat this fact of life. He promised to do the chore later. I said he'd do it right then and there. He exhaled a sigh of defeat and went inside and did what he should have done earlier.

Then he started back outside. "Where are you going?" 1 asked. "Outside to finish the game." "No, Eric, you're not. You're going to your room for the rest of the day and going to bed early." His face burst into shock and dismay. he demanded.

"Because you didn't do your chore when it should have been done." He said he was sorry and he wouldn't do it again, to which I said. "That's the idea," and sent him packing to his room. And no, I didn't go up two hours later and let him off the hook. He served all of his time and went to bed early. 1 An unjust consequence After telling this story to a live audience, I asked for a show of hands from those who believed my punishment had been unjust and despotic.

About a third of the folks raised their hands. 1 then pointed out that precisely because I was so "unjust," I never again had to remind Eric to do a chore. One time was all it took. 1 then took a poll. "What's worse?" I asked.

"Imposing a supposedly unreasonable punishment one time and one time only, or fighting the same battle day after day after day after day chastising, yelling, criticizing, complaining, threatening and yelling some more?" Everyone agreed. The latter is far worse. Over time, the day-after-day stuff takes a huge toll on parent, child, family and marriage. James D. and Irene M.

Piazza of Detroit, Mich. The bride graduated from the University of Evansville. She is senior deputy file clerk for the Marion County Clerk's Office. Her husband graduated from Michigan State University. He is an accounts specialist for Auto Zone.

Camahan-Ruiz Andrea Jean Simmons and Adam Brady Rat-cliff, both of Indianapolis, were married Oct. 5 in Little Chapel of the Flowers in Las Vegas, Nev. Their parents are Mr. and Mrs. Tom Simmons and Mr.

and Mrs. Char Hi Heather Alana Meyer of Plainfield and Chadwick Evan Anderson of Indianapolis were married Aug. 31 in Plainfield United Methodist Church. Their parents are Edgar and Grace Meyer of Plainfield and Charles and Jan Michelle Lynn Carnahan of Houston, Texas, and Dr. James M.

Ruiz of Sugar Land, Texas, were married Oct. 12 in St. John the Baptist Catholic Church in Vin-cennes. Their parents are Michael and Nancy Carnahan of late Mary Hebenstreit and Dick and Peggy Ponty of San Mateo, Calif. The bride graduated from Ball State University and the University of Southern California.

She is a planning consultant for The Fort Ord Reuse Authority on the Monterey Peninsula. Her husband graduated from the University of San Francisco and California State University. He is director of finance for Redwood City, Calif. The Indianapolis Star will publish your wedding announcement, with or without a picture of the bride or bridal couple. Details must be submitted on The Star's form.

To obtain it, send your request, including name and address, to The Indianapolis Star, Features Department, P.O. Box 145, Indianapolis, Ind. 46206-0145, or pick it up at The Star's public service counter at 307 N. Pennsylvania St. lie Ratcliff, all of Kokomo.

The bride graduated from Indiana University. She is communications coordinator for the Indiana CPA Society. Her husband graduated from Ball State University. He is a graphic artist for World Media Group. Anderson of Martinsville.

The bride graduated from Indiana Business College. Edwardsport and Al and Sue Ruiz of San GOLDEN. Mr. and Mrs. Roberts Mr.

and Mrs. Rainey Mr. and Mrs. Grounds Mr. and Mrs.

Doty Mr. Freije and the former Beverly Haynes were married Nov. 16, 1946, in St. Anthony Catholic Church. He has been a pharmacist 46 years and is semi-retired.

They have eight daughters and six sons and 23 grandchildren. COMMISKEY, Ind. Mr. and Mrs. Delmar D.

Doty Sr. will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary with an open house from 1 p.m. to 4 p.m. next Sunday in Muscatatuck County Park Dining Hall in North Mr. and Mrs.

Lee I. Rainey Sr. of Indianapolis celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary with a family dinner in the Embassy Suites North Hotel Nov. 9. Mr.

Rainey and the former Leana Parker were married Nov. 10, 1936, Mr. and Mrs. Charles A. Roberts of Indianapolis celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary Nov.

2 with a banquet and testimonial celebration in the fellowship hall of New Haven Missionary Baptist Church, of which they are members. MARTINSVILLE, Ind. Mr. and Mrs. Glen Grounds will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary with a reception from 1:30 p.m.

to 4 p.m. today in First Christian Church. Mr. Grounds and the former Dorothy Ennis were Mr. and Mrs.

Forbes Ml A ft Mr. and Mrs. Jude Forbes of Indianapolis celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary with a party in Hollyhock Hill Restaurant, with their family as hosts. Mr. Forbes and the former Patricia Thomas were married Nov.

9, 1946. in Shaw, Miss. He was a yards utilityman 30 years for Citizens Gas Coke Utility, retiring in 1978. They are members of Loving Missionary Baptist Church. He is a deacon and trustee, and she has sung in the choir for 35 years.

They are the parents of Brenda Boykins, Lee I. Delorise, Melvin, Clyde and Wayne Rainey, Shirley Jones and Angela McClendon; and have nine grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. married Nov. 30, 1946, in First Christian Church. He is a farmer in Morgan County and has been a soil conservationist for the federal government in Owen county for more than 20 years.

He is a World War II veteran. She has been a secretary 15 years for Indiana Employment Security Division. They are elders and members of First Christian Church. They are the parents of Daina Chamness and have two grandsons. Mr.

Roberts and the former Dorothy B. Ogbum were married Nov. 2, 1946, in Hopkinsville, Ky. He was a machinist 22 years for Beuhler Corp.IGW, before retiring in 1986. He is an Army veteran of World War II.

She was a bookstore manager three years for Arsenal Technical Continuing Education, before retiring in 1991. They are the 1992 Indianapolis Urban League Family of the Year. They are the parents of Chartester Jamison, Dr. Theresa and David A. Roberts and have two grandchildren.

Mr. Doty and the former Martha E. Mclntire were married Dec. 27, 1946, in Greenwood. He was a foreman 35 years for North Vernon Forge, before retiring in 1988.

He is a Navy veteran. They are the parents of Nancy Rhoades, Elaine Lea-high, Deanie Toppe, Delmar Dale Jr. and Douglas Doty and have 14 grandchildren, five stepgrandchildren, four great-great grandchildren and five stepgreat-grand-children. Mr. and Mrs.

Faulstich John Rosemond is a family psychologist, in private practice in North Carolina. Questions of general interest may be sent to him at the Charlotte Observer. Box 32188, Charlotte, N.C. 28232 or on the Internet's World Wide Web: comparenting He worked for Commercial Credit Corp. for 16 years, Ford Motor Credit Co.

for four years, National Underwriters for seven years and has had his own insurance agency since 1974. He is a Marine Corps veteran of World War II. She worked at several stores in Glendale Shopping Center, including LS. Ayres and Strauss and Alpine Haus (Ski Shop) and J.R. MacMeyer gift shop.

They are the parents of Jana Lutocka and the late Carol Palmer and have five grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. Mr. and Mrs. Montgomery Mr. and Mrs.

Reed Mr. and Mrs. Stout mini hwmwji mm CICERO, Ind. Mr. and Mrs.

William C. Faulstich will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary with an open house from 1 p.m. to 4 p.m. today in Red Bridge Park Community Building. Mr.

Faulstich and the former MOORESVILLE, Ind. Mr. and Mr. and Mrs. Gary Hu.aiwwm I Mr.

and Mrs. Raymond Montgomery of Speedway celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary with a luncheon buffet and afternoon dance in the Brickyard Crossing Inn on Nov. 30. Mr. Montgomery and the former Mrs.

Frank H. Stout will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary with an open house from 2 p.m. to 5 p.m. on Saturday in the home of their ST. PAUL, Ind.

Mr. and Mrs. Alfred N. Reed celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary with a special family dinner in Copper Kettle Restaurant Nov. 30.

Mr. Reed and the former Anna Mae Price were married Nov. 24, Mr. and Mrs. Huck Gary of Indianapolis will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary with a family gathering on Thursday.

1 daughter. y. i L-L-Ji I Mr. Stout and the former Flor Dorothy Cline were married Dec. 6, 1946, in Sheridan.

He is a self-employed brick mason and contractor and is semi-retired. He is a Navy veteran. She was a teller 16 years for Hamilton County Bank, retiring in 1987. They are the parents of Linda Barnhill, Corky Inman, Peggy Lacey and Cindy Coy and have nine grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. Mr.

and Mrs. Freije Mr. and Mrs. Carl Freije of Indianapolis celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in St. Anthony Catholic Church Nov.

16. Mr. Gary and the former Nadine Young were married Dec. 5, 1946, in Louisville. He was a Alberta Jean Faucett were married Dec.

1, 1946, in First Baptist Church in Ashgrove, Mo. He was a supervisor and purchasing agent 46 years for Link-Belt Bearing, retiring in 1988. He is a Marine Corps veteran of World War II. They are members of Memorial Baptist Church. They are the parents of Linda Rae Henninger and Kimberly Montgomery and have three grandchildren.

1946. He has been a farmer 43 years and has been semi-retired since 1989. She was an elementary school teacher 30 years for Shelby Eastern School District, retiring in 1988. They are members of Pleasant Hill United Methodist Church. They are the parents of Christine Waterfall, Annette and Dean Reed and have two grandchildren.

ence Lucille' Redmond were married Dec. 7, 1946, in Mount Olive Methodist Church in Ben Davis. He was a clerk 35 years for Amoco Oil before retiring in 1981. He is an Army Medical Corps veteran of World War II. She has been a secretary 10 years for Indiana Association of Insurance Agents.

They are the parents of Kathy Scott and have two grandchildren. distnct sales engineer 20 years for Spra-gue Electric, before retiring in 1987. They are the parents of Jeanne Floyd and Don Gary and have four grandchildren. Tell us your idea Here's the lineup of writers 1 who cover Lifestyle and their specialties; call them directly if -you have a story idea or a news item. All phone numbers are area code 317.

Skip Berry, general features, 656-1437. Judith Cebula, religion, spirituality and ethics, 633-9237. Lynn Ford, singles, 633-9272. Patricia Hagen, consumer news, 633-1017. Skip Hess, outdoors, 633-9464.

John Krull, Heartland writer (interesting people and stories throughout the Midwest), 633-9201. Lisa Lenoir, fashion, 633-9401. Loni Smith McKown, fash- 1 ion, 633-9394. Ruth Mullen, current trends and teens, 633-1395. Donna Mullinix, social news, fund-raising, museums, 633- 1 9164.

Nelson Price, profiles, 633-9389. Suzanne Reeder, home and garden, 633-9404. Kathleen Schuckel, family issues, 633-9105. Bill Shaw, general features, 633-9067. Fashion fax: 633-1213.

Lifestyle fax: 630-9565 4 A Thu column It for enttrtamment only. By Jan Moore Sagittarius (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): out conscious planning, Sag often chooses Thursday for special undertakings. Members of this sign accomplish more on that day when they are at their physical and mental peak.

Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Capri-corns love life and cling to it. Success may come slowly, like after 30, but hang on to that bread you've worked hard to earn. Aquarius (Jan.

20-Feb. 18): Aquarius prefers to exercise his spurts of individ- are special for Sagittarians comes easily. Creative work is best. Gemini (May 21-June 21): Some form of communication is important for happiness. Like quicksilver, thoughts and ideas flow easily into words: Members of this sign don't have to hire a hall to speak; the hall usually hires them.

Cancer (June 22-July 22): Women are important and helpful in the lives of Cancerians, whose guiding light is the silvery moon. Like her different phases, Cancerians enjoy changes, too, and could paper walls of the family room with accumulated travel folders. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22): The Leo father is a true patriarch in his home, where life revolves around him. If he's sired a Leo hothead, the two lions may come to a parting early in life.

Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Virgo moves quickly, like TNT Talk, News and Travel. Virgo enjoys telling about it after they've written the news and seen it themselves. Libra (Sept 23-Oct 22): Artistic Libra looks for ways to create beauty.

Airy Libra usually leaves tree-planting to earthy Taurus and turns creativity to interior decorating. Scorpio (Oct 23-Nov. 21): Pleasingly husky voices dramatize women of the sign, who love anything of the ancient past. Scorpio men are fascinated by nuclear science and oceanography. ualistic genius independent of authority.

Pinned to a routine, he may walk out and take his innovations with him. Pisces (Feb. 19-March 20): Pisceans are the beautiful dreamers whose nighttime adventures are in color. These sleeping spectaculars are compensation for drab dtytime duties. Aries (March 21 -April 19): The role of conquering hero fits Aries well, shining sword and all.

Success with sharp precision instruments points to surgeons, dentists and mechanical specialists. Taurus (April 20-May 20): The good things in life aren't free as Taurus knows, making the coin to pay for them.