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Mary Haworth's Mail Girl Dreams Of Marriage But Distrusts All Men DKAR'MARY HA WORTH: 'i would appreciate your guidance. 1 am 18, and getting around-lo thinking seriously of being married. That is, I feel old enough for marriage. But there is one problem that bothers me, I think of settling with the man of my choice; and that is the problem of infidelity. Just recently I have seen several motion that have presented in the- light-of improve your facility of "win- heroes for being unfaithful.

And recently-'I read a magazine article which claimed that one husband in six is unfaithful. This'gives pause for thought. When I asked married women about the situation, they seemed.quite nonchalant and just dismissed it as being "normal," Aims To Please I am perfectly a ware'thai many wives are at fault for their husbands' outside activity. But what about the sweet, loyal, loving little wives who also are being insulted? I am at my wits' when I.think of it. The very idea of my-future husband being unfaithful makes my blood run cold.

When I "marry, I intend to be just what my husband expects, and if Lam not at will conform. But will HE be what I expect? I may be getting a wrong impression of life; and if so I shall be more than happy to change my thoughts because at present I have a very skeptical view of men. Please either console me, or toughen me up; I am ready for the worst. S. P.

Real Anxicly DEAR S. Very likely (he line ot worry mil in letter in most surface camouflage of hidden concerns about and-or marriage, that lurk In ypur unconscious mind. Also, your preoccupation with possible future events suggests that, you aren't living satisfactorily in the present in terms ot enjoying a sense of sufficiency and. success in your personal relations. People who are missing out in this respect, who are starved for more life, tend to "escape" their immediate frustration by probing imaginatively into either the past or the 'is a do-nothing sorVot reaction to emotional It would he smarter, more fruitful, to look the real situation straight in the eye, and go into action, however limited, to ning friends and influencing people." Feels Inferior As of alleged distrust of men signifies; I Ihink, you have a nebulous, anxiety 'about sex, rooted in inferiority feelings, chiefly.

You feel thai you are a (o the dynamics ot love, and therefore will be a disappointment (o your beloved, if and when he knows you well. In short, it seems you lonely at heart, probably hick- ins; close warm family ties, and without good friends to turn to, for -confidential lalks a things that baffle you. Thus you tend to avail yourself of movie fare, hit-or-miss magazine reading, as an approach to learning about life and love. Which only to the uncertainty, of your thinking, instead of giving you light and truth to hank on. lie A Person For advice: In marriage, don't be an echo of your lius- bnnd's expectations.

Thai's being nothing and nobody. Rath- rr, be true to yourself yet courteous, considerate and cooperative in dealing with his factual self. Otherwise there cannot he a real relationship but only his efforts to deal with your defensive hypocrisy and pretense. 1 don't know whal percentage n( husbands are unfaithful, and I doubt that anyone docs. But jf you believe that onc-in-six are, why noli assume that the law of averages in your favor, and that you will marry one of the five reliable'men? 7 To get comprehensive help in thinking straight about human interchange, read Dr.

Alexander Magoun's fine hook "Love and Marriage" M. H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per sonal interview. Write her in care of Lebanon Daily NEWS. Daily NEWS Photo.

ALICE AND Leon Magdule (left), as Alice in has a conversation with the March Hare (Mrs. Norman Schaffer) as the Duchess (Mrs. Annabeie Greenbaum) left rear, and the Queen of Hearts (Mrs. Hyman Herman') engage in business of their own. The four were part of cast for "The "Cat in (lie Middle," a parody of "Alice in Wonderland" presented by the Lebanon-Chapter-of Hadassah following its annual donor luncheon at the Beth Israel Synagogue-Center on Wednesday.

6 'A lice In Wonderland'' Given In Parody By Local Hadassah Mrs. Fannie Templin Has 80th Birtliday Anniversary Mrs. Fannie Templin, 820 N. Twenty-Fourth is observing her eightieth birthday anniversary today, with best wishes from many friends and neighbors. The anniversary was previously on 'Sunday, 1 her son' "arid" "daughter-in-law, Air.

and Mrs. Templin, held a birthday dinner at their home, 2340 Lehman St. i All. of her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren wore present for the cole-' Arthur. Mr.

and Arthur Gr'oy and daughter Gail, Mr. and Mrs. David Groy and children Cheryl and David, Mr. and Wells; all of Coatesville; Mr. and Mrs.

Norman Templin and son Scott, Harrisburg; and Mrs. Stanton Templin and Bonnie and Kristin, Richland; Mr. and Mrs. John Schell and daughter Crystal, Wnmcls- dorf; Mr. and Mrs.

Allen Templin, Mr. and Mrs. Miles' Arnold, Mr. and Mrs. Leonard Snavely, Mr.

and Mrs. Mike Trinic, Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Schreibcr, Mr. and Mrs.

Paul Templin, Mr. and Mrs: Charles Kern and children Terry, Tom, Tryone and Tierney, Mrs. William Hartman and children Joy, Bruce Brian, Mrs. Harold Arnold and children Judy, Terry Lcc and Kay Lynn, Mr. and Mrs.

Harold Templin and children Harold and Joey. Also attending were (he Rev. and Mrs. Gilbert. Snyder and their daughter, Cheryl.

Cornwall Girls Ahead In League The Cornwall Mincrcllcs copped the first half lead in the Lebanon County Girls'-Basket- hall League yesterday by defeating Annville. The gameVwas played on the Annville court with the final score reading 32 to 29, favor Cornwall. Yesterday's victory gave Cornwall a record of five wins and no defeats for the first half of the season. Sally Yocum was Cornwall's high scorer with a tola! of 13 points. Karen Offutt an Miss Shaonich Feted At Shower Miss Adricnne Shaonich, 106 E.

Weidman was guest of honor at a bridal shower Wednesday evening at the home' of Mrs. Stephen Moyer, E. Guilford St. Miss Shaonich will become the bride of Charles Bender on January 31. Hostesses for I he show er were Miss -Michcle Shaonich, who will be maid of honor; Miss es Margaret Bender, Andrea Potocny, Kay Uffncr anrl Marian Gristjck, will serve as bridesmaids.

Attending were: Mrs. Lcn Ginnetto, Mrs. Palkovic, Mrs. Charles Bender, Mrs. Michael Shaonich, Mrs.

John Fceser, Mrs. John Misses Lucy Pele, Christine Miller, Joan Polocny, Jane Shaonich, Janet Arnold, Rosemarie and Kathleen Kugler, Harriet Beamesderfcr, Patricia Klespis, Gerry Brunclli, Mary Arnold, Millicent Brudcr, Eleanor Harlman, Rita Santangelo Theresa Arnold, Dclores Nod Margaret Frilz and Carol Moore outstanding performance in blocking the shots of the Annville forwards. Sandra Beach contributed a total of 17 points to be high scorer for Annville. The remainder of Annville's score was made by Virginia Clark, Barbara Moore and Ginny Sholly. and scoring are, as follows: Lewis Carroll could have been spinning in his grave Wednesday afternoon as a cast-from the Lebanon Chapter of Hadassah took his time-honored "Alice In Wonderland" and turned it into a production to promote Hadassah The result was delightful and retained much of the charm and fantasy of the Original story- The imaginative musical, entitled "The Cat in the Middle," was a highlight of Ha fjssah's annual donor luncheon, given for those who have contributed to further organization's work in Israel.

The luncheon was held in the social hall of the Beth Israel Syh'a- and the show was staged in the auditorium. Zelda (Mrs. Leon) Magdule was well cast in the role of Alice, a pert rad and while costume with pinafore and hair singing was pleas- ng and her portrayal of the child role was excellent. 'The entire cast performed with a polish and pace that was nearly professional. Costuming was imaginative and colorful.

The cast was as follows: Anita Schaffer, the March Hare; Mae Rose, Cheshire Cat; Isabel Etter, Hannah Lazin, Irma Braman and Joyce Forrest, chorus; Sandy Lewin, Trcedlcdee; Bea Ballcn, 'Tweedledum; Thelma Marks, -Mad Hallcr; Adele Frank, Dormouse; Fagic Berman, the Queen; Annabelle "I v. j- Easter Seal Drive Plans Furthered Gamma Omicron Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi sorority made further plans for conducting the Easter Seal drive for the Society for Crippled Children and Adults, last night at a meeting in the sorority rooms. Miss Anne Ris ser presided. general chairman for the drive, outlined plans made thus far. She said that a film on the work carried put through the Easter Seal drive is available for showing in the community.

The sorority plans to nominate officers at the next meeting, Feb ruary and to hold a parcel post auction on February 18. Hostesses were Miss Fay Zerbe and Miss Mary Ann Stohler. ANXVILLE Virginia Clark, Nancy Wollc, Sandra Beach, I Bnrhara Moore, Ann Krcby, Ginny Sholly, I Ann Bow. Nancy Honatius, Virginia Tschurty, I-orrainc Hcrr, Dianne Walbnrn, Shcffy, Totals 0 2 2 0 0 0 0 12 5 2 Sally Yocum, Barbara Ijoke, I Nancy Swishcr, Pamela Harkins, f- Mainicro, Carole Robinson, Karen OffiiU. Sliirlny Smith, 0 .1 4 0 1 0 0 0- 0 0 0 1 1 if 0 Greenbaum, the Duchess; Rose! Oppenheimer, the Carpenter; and Eunice Lazin, the Walrus.

Several members of the cast had singing roles, including the Queen, Mrs; Berman, whose performance was excellent. Walter Wolfe, as pianist, helped maintain Ihe quick pace of the pro- duclion. Mrs. Louis Kesslcr, as direc- and Mrs. Joseph Bowman, as choreographer, received icarty applause for the success of.

their efforts. The stage set- ings, done with artistry, were the work of Mrs. Henry Breitstein, Mrs. Lorraine Levitz, Mrs. "rma.

Levine, Mrs. Selma Weitz and Mrs. Joel Lewin. Luncheon tables carried out "Alice in Wonderland" heme with centerpieces of pot- paper flowers on pale green cloths. Mrs.

Leon Grosky, donor chairman, was in charge, with Mrs. Raymond Sladiem as cochairman for the luncheon. Mrs. was in charge of reservalicns. 0 he with the luncheon were Mrs.

Harold Perlmutter, Mrs. Jesse Rich, Mrs. Samuel Silberman, Mrs. Sol Baxt, Mrs. Daniel Caplan, Mrs.

Seymour Leibowitz, Mrs. 4be Magdule, Mrs. Louis Schoeffel, Mrs. Harry Sherin, Mrs. Stanley Steiner, Mrs.

Hylarid White, Mrs. Paul Yaverbaum, Mrs. Reuben Grosky, Mrs. Herbert Levy, Mrs. N'fe t'h a Krim, Martin Schneider and Mrs.

Martin Miller. Hostesses were Mrs. Sanford Koenigsberg, Mrs. Simon Yespy, Mrs. Robert Clauscr, Two Couples Seek Licenses To Wed Two marriage license applications were filed yesterday in Ihe county courthouse.

Applicant are: Daniel E. Heisey. 46, building contractor', bandisville, son Lizzie K. Heisey and the late Enos M. Heisey, and Romaine Wine, 30, Lebanon Route Five worker, daughter of Mr and Mrs.

George F. Wine. Joseph W. Werth, 32, X-ray op erator, 308 South Lincoln Avenue son of Mr. and Mrs.

Augustine Werth, and Gilda M. Pichini 20, machine operator, 2 Railroad lAieh Howeu strccl Hershey. daughter of Ag ncs Pichini and late Luig Pichini. Psychologist Is Speaker AtCiub Joseph Frank, psychologist in Ihe Lebanon City Schools, spoke on his work at'a. meeting of the Literature-Education Department of Ihe Woman's Club of Lebanon on Wednesday afternoon'at the clubhouse.

He was introduced by Mrs. Joe C. Gilbert. Mrs. Carl W.

Gruver presided as chairman. Hoslesses were Mrs. Edward Jones, Mrs, Albert Coons', Mrs. Eugene Siegrist, Mrs. Charles Neil and Mrs.

Joseph Mcsics. Mrs. Neil greeted numbers at. Ihe door. Mrs.

Coons and Mrs. Siegrist presided at the tea Mrs. Martin Miller, Mrs. Jesse Rich, Mrs. Sidney Levitz, Mrs.

Isadore Wolfson, Mrs. Sidney Brenner, Mrs. George Shatlls, Mrs. Manuel Wilson and' Mrs. Reuben Grosky.

Business Session Mrs. Murray Kessler, (president of Hadassah, welcomed the members- and conducted, a business meeting after Ihe luncheon. Mrs. Jacob Hack offered prayer. Mrs.

Paul Yaverbaum, finan cial secretary, reported the receipt of a donation from the Etter family in memory of Mrs. R. B. Levitz. It was announced that an Oneg Shabat will be held.

Saturday afternoon, Janu ary 31, when a book review will be given by Stanley Katz. The book, "Rivers in the Desert," by NeIsqn Glu'eck will be presented by Hadassah to the Lebanon Community Library and the Lebanon Valley College Library. Mrs. Martin was named chairfnan "of mating Others--on the committee Milton: Saniuei Sidney Levitz; Officers of Hafla'ssatoT -were seated at the head tafile for the They, 'a re: -Mrs. Kessler, president; Mrs.

Nat Howard, first vice Mrs. Leon Grooky, second president; Mrs; Martin Forrest, recording ere a Mrs Harold Gildar; corresponding secretary; Yaver financial secretary; and Mrs. Harold Perlmutter, treas urer. and Mrs. getonon Dniln Lebanon'Daily News, Lebanon, Thursday, January 1959 Page 21 Mr, FARN'SWOPTH and Mrs.

Charles Farnsworth of Lebanon Route Three the birth 6( a son. The infant arrived at 1:14 o'clock this morning in the Good Samaritan Hospital. Mrs, Parnsworth is the former Evelyn Wallers. FELTY Mr: and Mrs. Richard Felly of 816 Mifflin St.

have.an infant son who was born at 1:47 o'clock this morning inthe.Good Samaritan Hospilal. The mother -the. former Clara Lehman. The 'father 1 is employed by Lustberg, Nasl and Company Inc. 3RUBAKER At 2:25 o'clock- this morning, Mr.

and Mrs. Alvin Brubaker iecanie the parents of a daughter in the Good Samaritan Hospital. The family lives at My- Route Three. -Mrs. Brubaker was Verna Horst.be- 'ore her husband is self-employed as a farmer.

MEYER Dr. and Mrs. M. Meyer-. of.

701 Maple St. announce the birth of. a son. The infant arrived at 5:25 o'clock this morning in Good Samaritan Hospital. Mrs.

Meyer is the E. Ann Shellha'm- rner. Her husband- is physician. SMITH It's a girl, for Mr. and Mrs.

Oarl Smith of Annville Route Two. The baby was born in the Good Samaritan at 10:50 o'clock Wednesday morning. Mrs. Smith was Loretta J. before her- marriage Her husband is- employed by the H.

0. 'Toor Company, Annville. CARPENTER, Marlin Carpenter and his wife the former Mildred Micozzi, are the parents of a baby was born at 2:19 p.m. in the Good Samaritan Hos pital. The Carpenters live at Myerstown Route Two, Heights.

CONNOR James H. and Diane K. (Kirby) Connor of Lebanon Route Four announce the birth of a son. The infant arrived at 4:20 p.m. Wednesday in the i Good Samaritan Mr.

Connor is employed by Royer's Cake HARTMAN A daughter was born to Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Hartman of Jonestown at 10:55 p.m. Wednesday in the Good Samaritan Hospital. The mother's maiden name was Lucille.P.

Fortna. The father is employed by C. F. Inc. 5 Special Events For VA Patients Entertainment VA Hospital included three games parties, attendance at Hershey and a.mu- sical program featuring the Annville-Cleona High.

School Dance Band. Music, by the area students'en- tertained 215 patients.in the auditorium of Building One. William Lemon conducted 'the band. The program was sponsored by the National Federation of Music, with arrangements by Mills. Lebanon Chapter of the American Red Cross sponsored a party for 73 patients of Buildings-Two and 18.

Mrs. Elwood Snyder made arrangements and 12 women served as hostesses. Marketer's Guide The Golden Hour Circle of Moravian Church and the auxiliary of Legion Post 153 gave a party for 90 additional patients of Buildings Two and 19. Mrs. Sarah Streicher.

made arrangements. Another games party in Building One 'was sponsored by the Order 'of the Eastern Star, with arrangements by Mrs. Mary Whitman. All- the parties featured prizes and refreshments. Twenty-five patients were taken to the hockey game as guests ol the Hershey Sports Arena.

Lloyc Blinco, arena employe, made ar rangemenls and the local B'nai B'rith furnished refreshments to the group. Kitchen Favorites Ambhg Weekend Market WASHINGTON -Food shoppers with a sharp eye 'for bargains will be able to pick out few excellent items this weekend, and many, will be old-time favorites' in 'the kitchen. While park and broiler-fryers will lead the protein foods list, many areas will feature good buys in the more economical cuts of beef. Legs of lamb will be choice items at some markets. In pork, loin and rib roasts, pork chops, ham, and bacon will be (Spohn) MR.

and MRS. KARL E. BLAUCH were married in the Steelstown Evangelical Congregational Church. The bride is the former Frances L. George, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Melvin George of Annville Route One. The groom is the son of Mrs. Lillian Blanch of Annville Roule One. (Coloniaf) MR.

and MRS. JOSEPH STEPHEN BRENT's wedding took place in St. Mary's Catholic Church. The bride is the former Carole A. Groff, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Paul Donmoyer, 538 N. Seventh St. The groom is the son of Mrs. Joseph Brestovansky of 1013 Orchard Ave.

and the late John S. Breslovansky. JULIET JONES 1THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE I MEET A GAL I WANT TO MARRY, AND. WHAT HAPPENS? I FINANCE ITS SUCH AN OPO FEELINS-TOTALK TO PEOPLE YOUVE BEEN FPIENDLY WITH FOR WEEKS- KNOW THEM. THEY ALL.

LOOKED SO-SO INTERESTED IN ME TOO, EVE. SHPEWD COOKIE, HUH MORETHAU INTERESTED" IN YOU, SISTER. JULIET! THEJWO MALE MEMBERS-DANA Turkeys be featured at some too while eggs are still, an. excellem The vegetable list is not im pressive, but shoppers will fine plenty of potatoes, cabbage, car rots, lettuce and celery. Most available fruits this week end' will be apples, grapefruit, and tangerines.

Best' buys at the fish counter will be shrimp, fish sticks, anc canned tuna. Best Buys For the situation in this partic ular area, here are.rnore details for the Weekend food shoppers will fine meat counters well stocked with a good varieity of favorite items Legs o( lamb chops will be particularly attractive, and so will pork loins, chops "and hams In beef, you'll do well with a roast, be it round 1 or boneless chuck, and also with chuck steaks. Chickens continue in th economy class. Some markets will a turkey at attractivi prices. Eggs continue priced Dairy, products are also plentifu and reasonable.

In the vegetable section, bes buys will be endive, escarole potatoes, mushrooms, beets, cab bage, carrots, parsnips, and tur nips. Look for good buys in let tuce, onions, celery, spinach hooking greens, broccoli, and'Idaho'potatoes. Top values in fruit continue to be apples, with close runners-up limes, 'oranges, tangerines, 'and grapefruit. Others recommended are grapes, lemons, and pears. In fish, best, buys include fillets, scallops, clams, and canned California sardines.

-1 Engaged The engagement of Miss Peggy L.Shonk to Carl O. Moore son of Mr. and Mrs. Carl 6. Moore of Lebanon has been an nounced by her' parents, Mr.

and Mrs. Benjamin Shonk of Palmyra. iss on i a grad nate of High School and at present is a senior student at Harrisburg Polyclinic Hospital School of-Nursing. Her fiance is a graduate of Lebanon High School and is now employed at Olmsted Air Force Base, Middlelowit. Personals HAROLD TIRRELL, 710 Spring has left for LaMesa, where he will be superintendent of a shoe company.

He was for- nerly a foreman for the W. L. Kreider Sons Company' in Pal myra. SUZANNE KLICK, daughter of MR. and MRS.

JEAN KLICK, Lebanon Route '20, Fairview Heights, was feted with fir-il grade classmates at Cornwall School yesterday for her sixth birthday. A family -celebration was held at her home. MRS. ALLEN T. BASHORE, Myerstown, celebrated her eightieth 'birthday 'anniversary on Tuesday.

-la her honor, she and 'her husband were guests" of MR. and HEFFELFINGER; 1 West Main 1 for" birthday dinner. Mrs. Bash'ore was the recipient of cards, flowers, gifts and a birbhday cake. MISS ELLA BRIGHTBILL, 423 Bollman has left for Elgin, 111., -where she will' visit her brother, -ALVUST- BRIGHTBILL.

She will also stop in Chicago -to visit friends. Red Cross Women Entertain At VAH Eighty patients at the Lebanon VA Hospital were guests at a party sponsored night by the Gray Ladies and the Canteen Service of the Lebanon County Chapter, American Red Cross. There were games, prizes arid refreshments. Red Cross volunteers taking part, were Mrs. Charles Neil, Mrs.

Lee Mrs. George Staeger, Mrs. William Bertie Miller, Mrs. Victor Pierce, Florence Schock, Mrs. William Hicks, Mrs.

Amelia Alton Eiceman, Mrs. Carl Gruver and Miss Catherine Rise. Miss Kathryn Werner, of the Red Cross Motor Service, transportation. Cook's Corner FRIDAY FARE A frozen 'heat-and-serve main course is utterly delightful served this way. Crab -and Shrimp Imperial Crisp' Buttered Toast Romaine and Orange Salad Frosted Cupcakes Beverage CRAB AND SHRIMP IMPERIAL Ingredients: 1 package frozen Alaska king crabmeat with cream sauce, 1 can (414 ounces) wetpack cleaned medium sized shrimp, 8 pitted ripe olives.

Method: Remove block of frozen cream style, crab from its aluminum pan and place in double boiler. Drain shrimp; rinse in cold water; drain again and add to crabmeat. Slice olives into rings; add. Heat over boiling water vintil thoroughly hot, stirring carefully from time to time so not to break up seafood. Makes 4 small servings.

Note: Recipe may, doubled; nice when the girls come for lunch, Young Judeons On Doll Project Sixteen members of Young Judea met last night at Beth Israel Synagogue. They nut patterns lor stuffed dolls which, when completed, will be sent to a children's hospital in Israel, The group designated certain members to make tne eyes and btheri to do the stuffing. Also discussed were plana ts attend a convention of area Young Judea Clubs in Harrisbur at the end of March. Miss Ruth Levy is president of the city Mrs. Greenbaum and Mrs.

Martin vin are advisors. MURRAY'S DRASTIC CLEARANCE In Alt Depart men tt PRICES NOW BELOW MAMUFACTUREl'I COST TO US MURRAY'S 729 Cumberland St:.