The Ottawa Herald from Ottawa, Kansas on October 17, 1961 · Page 6
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' THE OTTAWA HERALD ' Tuesday. October 17, 1.61 Ann Landers You Either Like It Or You Don't Dear Ann Landers: The letter from that obstinate mother who insisted on naming her son Junior over the violent protest of her husband (also a Junior) prompts Ihis letter. You may recall the husband hated the tag so vehemently that he actually moved to another city. He said it was the only way he could separate himself from identification with his prominent, father. I know precisely how he felt because 1 was in t h » same boat. It';1) a d enough in the younger years but aftei a guy gets into 1) u s i ness it's murder. Why give a boy a name if people are going ANN to call him something else? This goes for Sonny, Buddy, Skipper, Sandy, Buzzie and what have you. If parents like these dizzy names so well why don't they christen their sons that way?—JUNIOR Dear Junior: As I told the obstinate mother — no woman should insist on a name if her husband doesn't want it. Some men like being Junior and want to pass along the "privilege." It usually depends on how Junior feels about Senior. Dear Ann Landers: Our son is 14. I always like to know where Billy is going and what time to expect him home. After dinner last night he put on his jacket and said "So long!" I asked where he was headed and when he'd be back. His father cut in to say, "Leave the kid alone. He's not a baby and you don't need to watch him like a hawk." I didn't want to start anything in front of the boy so I remained silent. At 12:15 I heard Billy's key in ihe door. My husband warned me not to ask him any questions. I'm worried and upset. I want to do what is best. Please help me.-SPRINGFIELD MOTHER Bear Springfield Mother: Parents not only have the right but they have the obligation to know where their children are going and furthermore they should tell them what time to be home".* 5 If your husband thinks freedom to roam around until all hours will make a man out of his son, I have a flash for him — it could make a bum or a criminal out of him first. Urge your husband to talk this over with his clergyman or the high school principal — or better, perhaps, with the chief of police. He'll get an earful. Dear Ann Landers: I am married to a 06-year-old juvenile delinquent. He has left home 11 times in the last two years. Whenever he loses his temper he says "I'm leaving this lunatic asylum." I say, "Fine, I'll help j you pack." Then I do. He's usual! ly back in two days. j The problem is this: since he | has retired he's more cantanker- j ous than ever. I think his idle- j ness has sent him off his trolley. 1 He has gotten into fights with every member of the family, including our sons-in-law. I have orders not to let them in the house, even when he's not at home. He says the house is half Ihis and that he ought to have a | say-so about who comes over. j I say this is unreasonable. I I like people and enjoy visiting with family and friends. What can I do?-MARTHA Dear Martha: Don't isolate yourself just because your husband has the personality of a baracuda. Invite whomever you please and instruct the "juvenile delinquent" to stay in "his half" of the house if he doesn't like the guests. Socialettes Mrs. Rose Abbott, assistant chief operator for the Southwest- era Bell Telephone Co., left by plane Monday on a 2-week vacation trip to Portland and Corvallis, Ore., and Seattle and Everett, Wash. She will visit relatives and friends at these cities. Boyd Ladies Aid elected officers at the meeting Friday with Mrs. Ray Reed. Members answered roll call with bits of philosophy. Twelve members and six children were present, also Mrs. Bob Bethel and Mrs. Glenn White. Mrs. Bethel was given a layette shower. Sunday dinner guests of Rev. and Mrs. G. B. Nelson, 1046 S. Main, were Mr. and Mrs. M. D. Perry, Mapleton, and Mr. and Mrs. Leland Zimmerman and Roberta, Baldwin. Junior-Senior P.T.A. Meets Junior-Senior High School P.T.- A. contributed $10 last night to the Community Book Fair to be the week of Nov. 12-18, Dr. S. M. Brockway led group singing, with Mrs. Lyman Corlis at the piano. Mrs. Neldo Saathoff presided. Rev. 'f^E. Caylor gave devotions. Following the showing of a Civil Defense film, principal W. P. Shepard spoke of plans for Civil Defense in our schools. For the talks on guidance, the assembly was divided into two sections with talks by Junior High counselor, Mrs. Howard Doman, and by Senior High counselor, W. P. Worley. The hospitality committee served refreshments. Biscuit Hint If you like your baking powder biscuits crusty, be sure to place them well apart from each other on the baking sheet. BOYS CLUB CilFTS — Mrs. Dwight Haworth (upper left) and Mrs. Lawrence Wright, community project committee mem- bers of Modernettes HDU, donate magazines and a box of clothing and shoes to (he Boys Club. Layette Shoiver Mrs. Victor Venables was honor guest at a layette shower given last evening by Mrs. Earl Sommer. Guests were women of the Nazarene Church and relatives of Mrs. Venables. Gifts were placed in a bassinet decorated in pink and white. As- sisting with the serving were Mrs. Russell Davis, Mrs. Ralph Murray and Kay Staneart. Twenty women and two children were present. Guild Meets Wesleyan Service Guild of Trinity Methodist Church met in the parsonage last evening with officers as hostesses. They are Mrs. Last 4 Days of Sale Sale Ends Sat., Oct. 21st HOUSE PAINTS l-Coat White $6.95 Gal. Davis Everbright. . . Leader White 4.99 Gal. in 4 gal. lots 3.79 Gal. in 4 gal. lots Ic Wallpaper Sale Buy the 1st single roll for regular book price. . .pay only Ic for the 2nd single roil. All stock sidewall papers included. Latex 22 Interior Wall Paint $4.19 Gal. Davis Spray Paint | 6c ° azn $1.29 We Do Picture Framing DAVIS PAINT Associate Store Gifts Housewares HAROLD LEITNAKER, Owner 129 S. Main CH 2-249! Irvin Happy, Mrs. John Kelsey, Mrs. William J. Wright, Mrs Arthur Brink and Carolyn Fisher. Committees were elected during a business session conducted by Mrs. Happy. Miss Fisher gave a pep talk on the purpose of the Guild and Mrs. Armstrong gave the devotions based on the song, "Are You Able". Seventeen members were present. LineS'BecHtle Vows Janice Lines, daughter of Mrs. Elsie Newton, Irwin, Mo., and Dale Newton, Burlington, was married Saturday evening to Pfc. Harold James Bechtle, son of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Bechtle, 1010 Walnut. Rev. Ralph Edwards performed the double ring ceremony at 7:30 in the Nazarene Church which was decorated with white candles and bouquets of roses. Mrs. Charles O'Dell played the piano accompaniment for Mrs. Ralph Edwards who sang, "Because" and "I Love You Truly". Attendants for the couple were the groom's sister, Delores Bechtle, Agra, and the bride's brother, Alvin Newton, Burlington. The bride wore a royal blue satin dress and carried a pink rose corsage on a white Bible. The maid of honor wore an aqua dress and white daisy corsage. The bride's mother wore a blue wool suit, and the groom's mother chose a blue acetate rayon dress. Their corsages were of white roses. The reception was in the church basement where the serving table was laid with a lace cloth and decorated with pink and white flowers and pink candles. Serving were Mrs. George Starbuck, Mrs. Ernest Bechtle, Mrs. Lloyd Heidner and Mrs. Chester Bechtle. The couple went on a wedding trip to Missouri. Both the bride and the groom attended O.H.S. The groom is in the Marinas. H« v/ill return to Camp Pendlcton, Calif., on Nov. 3. The bride will remain in Missouri until he receives another assignment. WSCSMeet To Open Wednesday »/ Ottawa ( District of the Women's Society for Christian Service will hold its fall meeting Wednesday at First Methodist Church, starting at 9:15 a.m. Speakers in the morning will be Mrs. Albert Henry, c o n- ference president, and Mrs. C. I. Moyer, conference secretary for Christian social relations. In the afternoon the speaker will be Mrs. Oliver Kliugner, who will speak on the World Conference of the Methodist Church at Oslo, Norway, which was held the past summer. The meetings are open to the public. David-Dryden Sharon David, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Everett Davis, 509 W. 10th, and Jerald Dryden, son of Mrs. Lorene Dryden, 512 Willow, were married by Rev. Gerald Hager on Oct. 6, at the Hager home. The groom is employed by Orral Staneart, contractor. The couple is at home at 509Mi W. 10th. FIRST OF THE ACTION-ECONOMY CARS The 1962 Dodge Dart 440, a low price, full-size Dodge that will outrun, out-economize most any car around. Accelerates 7% quicker than last year's comparable model, does it on 5% less fuel. Dead weight has been engineered out. You get action and economy in the same car. Also: Chair-high seats. Fold-down center armrest. Rustproofed body. Self-adjusting brakes 32,000 miles between grease jobs. Now drive THE NEW LEAN BREED OF DODGE See Your Dodge Dealer During October Open House — 180 New Cars Ottered Free MINNICK MOTOR CO. 201-09 So. Hickory Ottawa, Kansas Give the Way First National Financing... Give the Way Offers You Your Best Deal on an AUTO LOAN and Makes Your CAR COST LESS! oryou ...this beautiful 18 kt. gold plated Gar Key! us finance your new car and give you FREE this golden ignition key personalized with your initial. The key will be cut to fit your ignition switch. 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