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TUESDAY, MAY 27, 1986- -THE INDIANAPOLIS STAR- PAGE 3 6 Victorian Picnic' will recall 19th lifestyle century Painting The Town CARA funds were distributed to several recipients and the CARA Betty Rutherford Award was presented by Jim Chapman of PPG Industries, which underwrites the luncheon. Sally Page was assisted with plans by husband Paul. Mrs. Hoyer. Mrs.

Bettenhausen. Mjfs. Torres. Mrs. Penske.

Betty Allen and Ruth An Cadon. Now that the locals have discovered this gre'a't racetime event, it's unlikely it ever will diminish in size enough to leave the Convention Center! By DONNA S. MULLINIX Other race parties that were: r-5 A. Turn back the hands of time. It's the 19th century, a quieter, gentler time.

In their leisure hours, families enjoy march music, contests, crafts and such. You can put your family In that setting by attending the June 14 "Victorian Picnic" on the lawn of the President Benjamin Harrison Home, co-sponsored by the home and the Indianapolis Day Nursery Association Auxiliary. Many at the 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. event (which coincides with Flag Day) will be wearing costumes of the time.

They'll share in pie-eating or watermelon seed-splttlng contests. They may do sun prints or brass rubbings or make clothespin Vocal and instrumental music will share the spotlight. There'll be a chalk artist, an old-time photographer, a silhouette-maker, a fortune teller and opportunity to "plck-a-pocket." Vendors will provide food and drinks. Other organizations who'll set up educational displays are the Children's Museum. Conner Prairie Pioneer Settlement.

Indian Heritage Museum. Indiana State Museum and the Indianapolis Museum of Art. A highlight of the day will be the flag raising and lowering and the Pledge of Allegiance, which was Instituted by President Harrison. Tickets are $1.50 for adults and 81 for children. Proceeds will be shared by the Day Nursery branches and the Harrison Home.

Dorothy Sallee and Mary Ann Hogan are co-chairmen. Their committee heads include Rosie Semler, Julie Wright. Mary Calkins, Jean Claycombe, Marilyn Halbrook. Trish Condon, M.V. Under.

Pat Osborn, Judy Williams, Pam O'Bryan, Jane Murphy. Nancy Yoder. Barb Lllljeberg. Barbara Story, Patty Wachel, Ann Allen, Carol Connor, Sharon Moore, Sandy McCnen, Des Antrealan, Nan Diehl, Joan Riley, Jan Miller, Maureen Bus-kirk, Izzy McKlnny and Rosie Tanner. hugh 500 Ballroom and it obviously was a good decision.

It's grown Into a slickly produced show: It's so classy, in fact, that the ultimate in class Indiana-born fashion designer Bill Blass made a special videotape of his fall and winter showings recently for presentation at the event, then sent along about a dozen of his designs to be modeled. Lazarus presented the women's styles. Racing wives, mothers, children and yes. race drivers, trekked down the long, long runway for audience approval, which they certainly got. Especially popular were the scenes featuring the drivers and their children, the younger the better.

Bobby Rahal, for instance, drew cheers carrying his Infant. Emcees Paul and Sally Page (she was director of the whole show) revealed that Little Al Unser's son qualifies to be called Mini Al. Others with youngsters participating Included Pancho and Carta Carter, Ed and Nancy Pimm, Tony and Shirley Bettenhausen, Roberto and Katie Guerrero, Arie and Mleke Luyendyk and the Pages. Special guests were last year's 500-Mile Race winner, the very busy Danny Sullivan; '57 winner Sam Hanks, who promenaded with Alice, his wife of 38 years, and three-time winner Louie Meyer, with his bride of 61 years, June. Other race drivers participating were Geoff Brabham, Scott Brayton, Derek Daly, Emerson Fittapaldl, Jan Lammera and Johnny Rutherford.

Other women from the race fraternity who modeled included Beth Daly, Sandra Andretti, Roseina Brabham, Chris Bowen, Dana Capels, Evelyn Corbiere. Sue Faust, Teresa Fittapaldl, Carol Hable, Barb Hatch, Christine Home, Marty Hoyer, Arza Mitchell, Julie Nini. Diane Olvey, Wanda Pachta, Kathy Penske, Barbara Rahal, Debi Rahal, Becky Rhue, Betty Rutherford, Diane Simon, Joan Sneva, Sharon Sneva, Charlotte Torres, Karen Unser, Shelley Unser and Lou Ann alien. Indiana University basketball coach Bobby Knight, Indianapolis Colts players. Michael Jordan of the Chicago Bulls.

Big John Gillis of WIBC radio and many othr radio and television personalities will join In the event to benefit the Indiana Chapter of the Leukemia Society of America. Registration deadline is Friday. Individual entry fee Is $200. which Includes the putting contest, lunch, cocktails and dinner. Corporate entry fee Is $1,000.

The public is welcome at the 1 1 a.m. to noon Peter Longo Trick Shot Show. The former PGA golfer does more than 150 trick routines. The public also is Invited to the Celebrity Silent Auction, which starts at 9 a.m. In the Heather Hills clubhouse.

Items have been donated by the likes of singing group Alabama, Alan Alda, Tony Bennett and Julia Child, along with many local merchants. Art works, business Items, entertainment, sport-related articles and antiques will be sold. The silent auction ends at 6 p.m. with Items ready for payment and pick up at 6:30 p.m., when the awards dinner starts. For reservations or information call the Leukemia Society.

255-8787. Special race fashion show The Championship Auto Racing Auxiliary had its biggest success ever Friday when 1 ,000 or so people attended its annual benefit fashion show In the Indiana Convention Center. It's the first time for the event to be held downtown in the Phil Harris darned near stole the show, as usual, when he led the crowd at the annual Jim Clark Award Dinner In singing Back Home Agaip in Indiana Thursday night in the IndianapoHs Athletic Club. This year's winner. Parnelll Jones, seemed as awed with the honor as his predecessors have been: that's because they're chosen by their peers and they all respect ftlie memory of the late great racer Jim Clark.

Pa- nelli was accompanied by his beautiful blortd wife Judy and their California friends. Vince and Marie Granatelli. (Now where have we heard thlft name? Yes. he's Andy Granatelli's son.) KrftgeV Co. vice president Ted Engel and wife Ann Prince were hosts for the sell-out dinner.

The Indianapolis Press Club wishes no one bad luck, but frankly, those in charge were grateful the shake-up in the last-row lineup for the race didn't happen until after their Wednesday night Last Row Party. Since that's the way it stood then, the 31st-, 32nd- and 33rd-place starters roasted at the annual blast were, respectively, Gary Bettenhausen, George Snider and Mario Andretti. That all changed, of the next day when Dennis Firestone's accident took him out of the race and caused other shuffles. Indiana National Bank put on a nice party Wednesday evening in the Indianapolis Motor-Speedway Hall of Fame Museum. It was a change in tradition.

These previously have been held rn an infield tent, with Restaurant Managemeht Associates (from LaTour) catering. The Speedway Motel folks did this one. 'Swing for Life' There'll be celebrities and more at the June 10 Pizza Hut "Swing for Life" Golf Tournament at Heather Hills Country Club. Herpes has no identifiable 'safe' period Heloise Dr. Lawrence E.

Lamb Report 63 of the Health Letter, Oral and Genital Herpes, which I am sending you. Others who want this Issue can send $1 with their order to the Health Letter, in care of The Indianapolis Star. P.O. Box 19622. Irvine.

Calif. 92713. Please allow four to six weeks for delivery. You will decrease the chances of getting or spreading genital herpes by using a condom. It should be used whether there is any evidence of active lesions or not.

I would have to say it Is rather irresponsible to have any sexually transmitted disease and knowingly risk infecting someone else who does not know you have it. It seems clear that no worth- while relationship will develop' on the basis of deceit. DEAR DR. LAMB: Three years ago I met a girl I liked and became sexually intimate with her. Later she confessed to me that she had herpes.

We continued to date only each other, even though I too had contracted it as well. After researching the virus I discovered that one can contract it even though one Is not active with outbreaks. Is this a reason to advise people one has herpes before sex. and can it be spread with casual contact or only after repeated sexual contact with the same person? Since our breakup, she has become involved with another man and has advised me she has no intention of telling him. I have reservations about telling the girl I am now dating.

What should one do about explaining to another person that they have herpes? DEAR READER: You are correct. You can get herpes from having sex with a person who has the disease, even though there is no evidence of an active attack, with sores or blisters. My question Is, will my active athletic endeavors be further in jeopardy by having this initial case of tendonitis, or will it clear up to a point it will no longer be a problem? DEAR READER: Tendonitis is tendonitis, regardless of which tendon is involved. It is an inflammation of the membranous covering around the tendon. 'r Of course, the tendon for the patella (knee cap) is the largest tendon in your body, and it works from the largest muscle in your body, the quadriceps over the front of your' thigh.

i The usual approach to treatment is rest, heat, medicines to counteract inflammation sometimes injection of corticosteroids. "3 The future depends on what has caused it In the first place. Jf It is related to a disorder in your knee, then you might have more trouble. In that case, somf causes can be corrected surgical- iy. If you have an unstable certain exercises may help.

a News America Syndicate That means there Is no real identifiable safe period when a person who has genital herpes will not spread the disease. The only sure way to avoid genital herpes Is to not have sex at all with a person who has it. I do not know what you mean for certain about casual contact. My definition of casual and yours may not be the same. But if you do not have physical contact with an active lesion or do not have a break in your skin that allows the virus to enter your body, you will not get genital herpes.

You do not get it from door knobs, shaking hands or hugging. You can get it with just one sexual experience if the circumstances are right. I have discussed herpes simplex In more detail in Special DEAR DR. LAMB: I am a 26-year-old male and I was recently diagnosed as having patella tendonitis. 1 was advised that two to three weeks would be needed before the pain and Inflammation would subside.

DEAR HELOISE: If any bf you really hate housework as much as I do and bathroom shower doors are the worst here's a way to keep from ever having to clean them. Buy a small squeegee and keep it In the shower. Every time you finish showering, take the squeegee and wipe all the water and soap residue off the glass as well as the shower walls. It takes than a minute. The only shower cleaning I ever have to do is the faucets and the floor.

Wish the rest of the house was that easy! Myra Johnson DEAR MYRA: Consistency pays off. especially when It comes to bathroom shower walls and doors. A few seconds spent wiping them down after each shower will keep the mildew and buildup away. To me. it is time well spent! Heloise DEAR HELOISE: It is difficult to cook for one person and I'm not a lover of leftovers.

However. I have a four-egg poacher and it makes a wonderful steam table. The size is Just perfect for the small portions I heat for a meal. Mary Stover DEAR HELOISEs Please reprint the Instructions for starching hand-crocheted doilies. I have several which are limp and unattractive and I don't remember the directions.

Dot Ratley DEAR DOT: Simply put one-fourth cup water and three-fourths cup sugar in a small pan. Over low heat, stir the mixture until it is clear, not sugary. Do not let It come to a boll. To use. wet the piece to be starched, roll It In a bath towel to remove the excess moisture, then dip It In the sugar mixture.

Squeeze out the excess starch, A cute decorating trick Is to use the stiffener on little doilies, then shape them over small bowls to make lacy baskets. Little girls, especially, love to use them to hold barrettes or whatever. Heloise DEAR HELOISE: To remove ballpoint ink from washable clothing, use hairspray on the spot. Usually It will take It right out. Wash as usual after applying the spray.

Margaret Weaver DEAR HELOISE: I have a suggestion for lengthening the now popular and fashionable heavy wooden bead necklaces, as they often interfere with the collar of a blouse or dress-Simply attach a chain bracelet to the necklace. It makes the necklace a little longer yet is usually not noticeable. Dais Leccese DEAR HELOISE: The hint 1 have is for needlework buffs. I use an empty two-liter, soft drink bottle and remove the black, plastic bottom that fits over the bottle Itself. I cut about two Inches off the bottom of the bottle, put my yarn inside, pull a strand up through the neck of the bottle, then slip the black part back on.

It works great! Helps to keep the yarn clean and free of tangles. Iowa Reader DEAR HELOISE: Just a simple tip for corn-on-the-cob lovers. Rather than trying to spread butter on the hot corn with a knife, why not spread the butter on a piece of bread and run the corn over the bread. It works like a charm and it Is so easy for the kids. G.C.

Send a monev or time-saving The Kinsey Report tSst I mt By DR. JUNE REINISCH most were capable of satisfactory sexual interaction with partners who were not amputees. Specialists who work with disabled women have noted that some fear men in general and become particularly confused If man becomes interested In them. Your husband may be reacting to your doubts about yoifr physical attractiveness by being overly reassuring about yoiir missing leg and may not have ja fetish reaction to the stump At. Even if he's attracted to 'amputees, you are not the only female amputee but he did choose you to be his wife.

United Feature Syndicate i means "cut." and "philfa" means Data from one study of 183 persons who expressed a sexual interest in partners without limbs (admittedly a small, self-selected, non-random group of subjects) showed that most be came aware of their attraction to amputees around the time of puberty. Fewer than half could Identify any particular event that led to their Interest. Most had achieved higher-than-average educational and occupational status. Answers to questions about their childhood and parents showed that 80 percent got along well with their parents and most showed no higher interest than the general population in other specific erotic interests, such as bondage or sadism. DEAR DR.

REINISCHf I lost my leg in an auto accident at age 16 and. until recently, assumed that no man would ever find me attractive. I am now happily married, but am uncertain about my husband's behavior. I've seen your columns about other types of fetishes and wonder if that's what's going on. My husband seems fascinated by my stump, as though it is sexually a plus.

(In my eyes, my stump looks grotesque.) My husband cannot explain what Is behind this, but a friend who Is also an amputee told me her husband Is that way. too. We've been calling it our "fringe benefit" for losing legs. and It's a small consolation that helps make life a little more bearable. Still, we are very curious as to what is behind this attraction.

DEAR READER: The cause of fetish behavior (a strong attraction to objects or body parts that the majority of people do not associate with sexual stimulation) remains a riddle. Although various psychological theories have been proposed, researchers still disagree about how any particular event or "situation might cause a sexual fetish. You and your friend may be the objects of a behavior called acrotomophilla (in Greek, "aero" means "extremity." "tomo" I WILL PAY Xhint to Heloise. In care of The Indianapolis Star. P.O.

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