The Cincinnati Enquirer from Cincinnati, Ohio on September 22, 1991 · Page 58
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Sunday, September 22, 1991 THE CINCINNATI ENQUIRER FeaturesE-7 Kids Sigs of abuse n n n j m n n n rr n n 1 .... " . 1 ii viVJ U 1 Li LdNL) UUUV. JUL! W Children who keep the secret of abuse to themselves will often make up for their silence by behaving differently. Common signs and symptoms of abuse include: Falling grades or lower-than-expected academic achievement at school. Frequent fights at school or with friends. Withdrawal into themselves, quietness, social isolation, especially among children who are normally outgoing. Loss of interest in favorite activities, hobbies, sports. Sudden changes in normal behavior. Unexplained fears of certain places, people or situations. Nightmares, bad dreams and frequent fearful awakenings at night, especially in young children. Unusual interest in or knowledge of sexual matters. CONTINUED FROM PAGE E l ior, McKee says. Making assumptions, or blaming the child without all the facts, will only make the child clam up, she says. Instead of demanding answers, tell the child you're concerned and want to know if everything is okay. Tell the child about the changes you have noticed, and ask if there's anything the child wants to discuss. Even if the child refuses to talk initially, let the child know an adult will always be willing to listen, Mangold says. Anger a mistake When children do open up, many parents make the mistake of getting angry. ; Because many instances of abuse include threats by the abuser, children whose parents react with threats of their own may quit talking, or later deny the abuse as a way to avoid a confrontation. ". Keep the focus on the child. Invest emotional energy in getting help, not in seeking revenge or blowing the situation out of proportion, Mangold says. ; And because children are often drilled in the concepts of good and bad, they may assume that they are bad because something bad happened to them, say Flora Colao emotionally torn wanting to be as comforting as possible to the child while desiring revenge just as adamantly for the perpetrator. A therapist or counselor can help You want to lose weight the best way possible without sacrificing your them channel feelings toward con health. And you want to be able to enjoy all your favorite foods. That's structive goals, McKee says. Parents also should be willing to why Weight Watchers created the ultimate program that answers all your needs, including learning how to keep that weight off. press charges against the abuser, as a way of stopping further abuse, and Tamar Hosansky, authors of Your Children Should Know (Bobbs-Merrill; $16.95). 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