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DEAR ABBY Psychologist Or Psychiatrist? By Abigail Van Buren tf71 IT TrtMM-N. f. Ntwt Inc. DEAR ABBY: A wife complained that her husband, a psychologist, was being intimate with some of his women patients. IHe said It was "in the line of You told her that her husband needed to see a psychiatrist.

Why didn't you recommend a psychologist? Some psychologists are as competent as psychiatrists to treat individuals with emotional problems. WANTS TO KNOW DEAR WANTS: A psychiatrist Is first a physician, which qualifies him to rule out a physical problem that could be responsible for the emotional problem. Furthermore, only a physician is able to prescribe medication, should it be needed. A psychologist who behaves in an unethical manner engaging in intimacies with patients is indeed should, in my opinion, see a psychiatrist. And I'd make the same recommendation for a lawyer, C.

P. or any other professional person who gets carried away in the line of duty and appears hell-bent on destroying his family and livelihood. If the psychiatrist decides that only psychotherapy is indicated, a referral to a clinical psychologist could then be made. DEAR ABBY: You advised someone to "go the 70x7 route," and no one in our office can figure out what you meant. Please clarify.

STUMPED AT KRUPP'S DEAR STUMPED: I meant that however many 7, or trespasses against you, if he asks forgiveness, forgive him. Testament: Matthew, XVI- II, DEAR ABBY: I am a 14-year-old boy with an unusual problem. For the last two years I have had a paper route and done odd jobs. I have saved $800 to do with what I please. My sister lives in Belgium and has asked me to visit her during vacation time.

She is 28 and teaches school there. My mom said I may go, but my father hit the ceiling. He said I was too young to learn anything, that it would be a waste of time and money for me to make that trip at age 14. Abby, I do well in school and I think I would learn a lot if I made this trip. I earned all the money myself and saved it, and I think I should be allowed to go.

What do you think? YOUNG READER: YELM, WASH. DEAR READER: From your letter I would say you are a responsible young man and would learn a great deal from the trip. Furthermore, a 14-year-old boy who can earn and save $800 should be permitted to spend it as he sees fit. vote with Mom. P.

S. If you go, send me a DEAR ABBY: Two years ago I had a wedlock. Because I was pregnant, unable to work, and unmarried, I filed for public aid. After the baby came I was advised to file a paternity suit against Roy, the baby's father. Roy admitted paternity, and the court ordered him to pay me child support every month, which he does.

Roy is marrying a girl who lives about 50 miles away. He says his fiancee knows nothing about the child and he has no intentions of telling her. I think he should. The child carries Roy's last name and if anything should happen to me, he would have to take the child. Roy is 30 years old, makes a very good living, and this will be his first marriage.

Would I be out of line to let Roy's fiancee know about our child? If I were in her place, I'd want someone to tell me. CONSIDERING IT DEAR CONSIDERING: Tell Roy he is unrealistic, unfair, and kidding himself if he thinks he can keep this illegitimate child a secret from his wife forever. I would not tell the girl, but I would advise you to urge Roy to before the wedding. CONFIDENTIAL TO JOHNNY: The best things in life are far from oftentimes come with experience. And experience can be expensive.

SOCIAL CALENDAR TUESDAY Alpha Beta Epsilon Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi Sorority will meet-at 7:30 p.m. in the Elks' Hall with Mrs. Glenn Benson as hostess. TUESDAY The fris Social Club will meet at 7:30 p.m. in the home of Mr.

and Mrs. German Gallegos, 210 Alta Vista St. THURSDAY The Morning Glory Garden Club will meet at 8:30 a.m. at Sacred Heart Catholic Church parking lot for a pilgrimage to Leakey. WEDNESDAY The Buena Vista Garden Club will meet at 10:30 a.m.

in the home of Mrs. James Blocklinger, 206 Fox Drive, for a pot luck luncheon and election of officers. DEL RIO (TEXAS) NiWS-HERALD, 1. 1973-3 Miscellaneous Shower Honors Miss Joan Yates A miscellaneous gift shower complimenting Miss Joan Yates was given Saturday between the hours of 7 and 9 o'clock in the evening in the home of Mrs. R.W.

Craig, 213 Santa Maria Drive. Miss Yates is to be married to Don Foster June 2. Receiving the guests were the honoree and her mother, Mrs. HaroldYates; Mrs. Chester Foster, mother of Miss Yates' fiance; Mrs.

Betty Lou Lively, grandmother of the guest of honor, and Mrs. Hazel Fry. grandmother of Miss Yates Fiance. Miss Pam Foster registered the guests in the bride's book. A white cloth covered the table, centered with an arrangement of lovely sping flowers.

Hosteses for the shower were Mrs. James Carmon, Mrs. George F. Adams Mrs. R.W.

Craig, Mrs. Eldon Abbett, Mrs. Dale Hutchinson, Mrs. James Lowe, Mrs. C.R.

Massey, Mrs. Jimmy Harrell and Mrs. Walter Davenport. Approximately 30 guests attended during the evening. Miss Deborah Ahr Honor Guest at Gift Shower Convertible Clutch Clutch bags with snap-on straps convert the popular under-the-arm style to the conventional shoulder bag.

Miss Deborah Ahr was complimented at a miscellaneous gift shower in the home of Mrs. Phillip Ariedge between the hours of 7:30 and 9 o'clock on the evening of April 26. Miss Ahr is to be married to Ray Harbison of Weslaco on May 12. Guests were received by the guest of honor; her White polka dots on ground of red, green and navy can be found in many of the latest fashions and accessories. The polka dot, though it been around for years, never looked newer, popping up on this season's smocks, totes, hats, halters and purses.

These shown are from J. C. Penney. Couple Mark 50th Wedding at Dinner District Awards Won by Del Rio PTAs Quemado Churches Mrs. C.J.

Ahr, and by Mrs. Phillip Ariedge. Miss Ahr was attired in a double knit dress of lavender; lavender chrysanthemums were her flowers. Miss Susan Ariedge was in charge of the bride's book and registered the guests. The table, laid in white, was centered with lavender chrysanthemums and lavender tapers.

White hearts were inscribed "Deb and Ray." Miss Martha Graf and Mrs. Jinks Coleman presided at the table. Hostesses included Mesdames Phillip Ariedge, James Carter, Hunks Coleman, Ricahrd Craig, John Graf, W.L. Kessler and Glenn Kinsey. Approximately 30 attended the shower.

Out-of-town guests included Mrs. George Ehlinger of Devine, maternal grandmother of the bride; Mrs. Julius Ahr of LaCoste, her paternal grandmother; Mrs. Velda Alexander of San Antonio, aunt of the guest of honor. QUEMADO Mr.

and Mrs. William C. Guffey of Quemado Valley observed their 50th wedding anniversary April 6. A dinner marking tht occasion was given at the Colonial Inn in Eagle Pass by children and a grandson of the couple. These included Mr.

and Mrs. Leon Clark of Midland and William C. Guffey Jr. of Brackenridge, the son-in-law, daughter and son of the Guffevs. and their gandson.

WIN AT BRIDGE The Jacoby Two No-Trump NORTH (D) OkKQ J80 A93 A 5 IM WEST EAST A 2 A 5 3 8 15 -1 10 752 1072 a 03 A 10 7 A 2 SOUTH A A 10 7 Void 8 4 A 5 Both vulnerable West North East South 1 A Pass 2 T. Pass 3 A Pass 4 A Pass Pass Pass Pass 4 fi Pass Opening lead Pass Pass Pass Pass 10 4 N.T. 5 N.T. 7 N.T. The four-club and four-diamond bids showed aces, whereupon South went right into Blackwood and found that his partner held two aces and two kings.

He also knew that North held at least two diamonds. This made it possible for South to count to 13 tricks provided one of North's kings was in spades. If he did not hold the spade king there would be the same play for either grand slam so South bid seven no-trump and got his top score. (NEWSPAPER ENTERPRISE ASSN.) The bidding has been: West North By Oswald James Jacoby In rubber bridge, seven spades is the correct North- South contract. It can only he beaten if the opening lead is ruffed.

It is also a pretty good contract in match point duplicate but seven no-trump is a better one. It won't make if diamonds break 5-1 and the man with five diamonds hangs onto all of them, but the extra 10 points are going to mean a top score as against one just a trifle above average. Here is how one pair got this top score by use of one of our conventions, the Ja- coby two no-trump. South's two no-trump response had nothing to do with no-trump but showed a strong spade raise. North's three-spade rebid said, "I have a very good hand without a singleton." Pass Pass East 3 A 4 A Pass i Pass You, South, hold: VA32 tKQIOKi What do you do now? six hem Is.

Your fivc- (liaiiidiul hid was conservative. TODAY'S QUESTION Instead of opening three spades, East has opened three hearts. You have the same hand. What do you do? Answer tomorrow Quality Flowers Designed with Care 307 E. 8th 775-6066 Cpl.

Barry E. Guffey of Cherry Point, N.C. He is serving with the United States Marines. The hosts presented their parents with a large color television set. Mrs.

Guffey was Miss Bernice Trainer before her wedding April 6, 1923, in Eldorado. Kan. The Guffeys have been residents of Quemado Valley for six and a half years. HINTS FROM HELOISE South 3 N.T. Dear Heloise: Take a small plastic flower pot and place it on the sink or drainboard in your kitchen.

This makes a dandy container for your scouring pad. Place pad in the flower pot after each use. This keeps the rust, soap, water etc. off the drainboard and the little holes in the bottom of the pot allow water to drain, thus preserving the pad longer. The little flower pot may also be decorated for a more attractive effect.

This has worked so nicely for me, I thought I might share it with others. Hope you like it! Barbara Holden LETTER OF LOVE Dear Heloise: With Mother's Day coming along soon, I would like to tell you what my two sisters and I do for our mother. At 73, it is hard for her to get down on her knees to plant flowers. So each of us buys her favorite kind of flowers, and we plant them in her yard so she can enjoy them all summer. Mrs.

Margaret Surdy SOCIAL CALENDAR WEDNESDAY The Now Century Club will mot't at 4 p.m. in Holiday Inn for installation of officers. Hostesses for the afternoon will be Mrs. W.F. Humphreys, Mrs.

Grovcr C. Poole and Mrs. Jack Pokes. THURSDAY The Mignonette Garden Club will meet at 9:30 a.m. in the home of Mrs.

Lee Roy Wood, 104 S. Orbit with Mrs. Wood and Mrs. M.H. Wagner as hostesses.

Bless you! What a refreshing idea. Heloise Parent-Teacher Associations of Del Rio received awards at the two-day meeting of the Sixth District PTA in Big Lake over the weekend. First place and double gold rating for publicity was presented to North Heights Elementary School Parent-Teacher Association and a green ribbon for a 10 per cent increase in membership was awarded to East Side Elementary School Parent-Teacher Association and Garfield Parent-Teacher Association. Attending the 52nd annual spring conference from Del Rio were Mr. and Mrs.

George Henderson of North Heights PTA and Mr. and Mrs. Harvey Timmerof Oarfiold PTA. Mrs. Jeanette Perry of Quemado was elected president of the district and others from Quemado attending the meeting were Mrs.

Diane Perry and Mrs. Kay Miller. During the conference, a report showed the district has an increased membership this year of 1 6 per cent from last Chairman Named For Fund Attorney John R. Foster has been appointed chairman of the finance committee for the Merlin Carothers meeting, to be held in the Del Rio Civic Center Friday night. Those desiring to make contributions may contact him or make their donations to any member of the Del Rio Ministerial Alliance.

Contributions also may be given to Mrs. Debbie Almond or Mrs. Virginia Smith at the Del Rio National Bank. Checks should be made out to First Assembly of God Church, Merlin Carothers Meeting. The meering is sponsored by the First Assembly of God Church and the Del Rio Ministerial Alliance.

lovo -is a row IH her room while ihe'i convoletcing. ADAMS FLOWERS THRIFTY DRUG MARK-DOWN SALE Little bit of Everything in the store STORE 1007 Ave. One whole area of store will have sale items. Toys Cosmetics Drug products Gifts Colognes School supplies. SALE STARTS MOM.

year, the largest increase of any district in Texas. Prior to the awards presentations, Mrs. Jean Harris, past state president and a life member of PTA, presented a talk on the conference theme, "We Have a Commitment." "We are committed the minute we become a parent," she said and she praised members for their stand to gain better programs for television. She reminded them this has been a result of personal involvement on their part in the community. Guest speaker Saturday afternoon was Mrs.

Leroy Lewis, state educational relations chairman. "Do not forget about cultural arts in order to prepare for a vocation," she said. "There has been a shift to vocational training in the schools but cultural arts still have a place in life. The conference ended Saturday with a parade of presidents, courtesy resolutions Hold Easter Service QUEMADO At the picturesque hillside on the banks of the canal on Farm to Market Road 1908 to Spofford, an effective Easter Sunrise Service was conducted April Three wooden crosses formed the background. All churches of Quemado participated in the service.

The overcast sky with rolling clouds and light mist enhanced the service. The Rev. Windel Bell of the Que nado United Methodist Church was the program director; the Rev. Kenneth Green of the First Baptist Church gave the invocation and led the Lord's Paryer. The congregation sang "The Old Rugged Cross" and "He Lives." A selected choir sang "Were You There?" Robert Falcon presented an effective trumpet solo of "Christ Arose," playing from a distance.

Mrs. B.M. Perry of the Quemado Assembly of God Church, read the scripture from St. John and offered a poem and prayer. The Easter message was delivered by the Rev.

J.E. Timmons of the Free Will Baptist Institute and the Rev. Mr. Bell gave the benediction. 125 FOSTER DRIVE Call 775-8365 Open Tues thru Sat 9 to 6 Wigs, Beauty Services Cosmetics ORDER EARLY For MOTHER'S DAY From ADAMS FLOWERS WE HATE TO DO IT, BUT Due to increased expansion of our contract department WE ARE CLOSING OUT OUR SHOW ROOM! Beautiful Light FIXTURES Price ONCE IN A LIFE TIME SALE Close-out EARLY AMERICAN MIlKGLASS 28.00 PEWTER 5 ARM MODERN HEXAGON 52.50 If you ore building or remodeling you'll never see prices like these on quality fixtures.

FIBERGLASS SHOWER $129 60 This is a ridiculous price for a fine quality completely sell contained shower. Reg. S329.60 CABINETS AND MARBLE TOP $CO CA LAVATORIES 6 9- M05.50 3X.3U 6 FT. SUNKEN TUB Reg. M56.00 DOUBLE SINK WITH DISPOSAL EVERYTHING ON SALE 04.50 52.50 BUILDERS WELCOME CASH AND CARRY ALL SALES FINAL Hi Grade GAS FIREPLACE 0 $eoo MWO I Enamel Paint "3 '303" CloMoul Price Reg.

M0.95 G.I Flicker Bulbs Reg. CLOSE-OUT PRICES THRU-OUT STORE SALE LASTS 1 WEEK ONLY Monday April 30 thru Monday May 7 We hate to do it, but any show room stock not sold by May 7th will be stored. Remodeling of our building starts May 8th. Everything must be moved. HAROLD KELLEY CO, 611 E.

GIBBS 775-4453.