Daily News from New York, New York • 277

DAILY NEWS, THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 7, 1974 8C it's tarey Times I2f miAii just dreading it" but all clung to the memory of the campaign, the tremendous victory, the thing they had all done together as their mother, who died of cancer in March, had urged. They are aware they are going from relative privacy to the spotlight of the erovernor's mansion, but it didn't seem to disturb them, as it had President Ford's children, when they moved to an even hotter spotlight. "I don't think the Ford kids wanted it," Marianne mused. "We did. We wanted our father to be governor, we all readdy worked together to make it happen." Even the younger children were prepared for what is to come by active participation in the campaign, Alexandra, 29, the late Carey's daughter by her first marriage, said thoughtfully.

Even Kevin, 10, and Thomas, 8, "loved campaigning and being with my father," she said. "They understand he's No. 1 in the state, but not all the ramifications, of course." But fearful, wary of strangers "No," she said decisively. "They're pretty open-minded." She will leave her public relations job at the Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts in Washington to live here in New York, but the Carey women "will share the hostess duties, just like we did in the campaign," said the slim young woman whom everyone calls "Randy." Who will live at the Albany mansion, whether it will be home year-round for the eight children still at home, is yet to be decided. (Susan, 25, lives in Brooklyn with husband Martin Dempsey; Chris, 26 and Don, 19, live on their own nearby.) "We haven't even seen the mansion," Nancy laughed.

"We were going to take a tour, but figured it might be bad luck," Marianne chimed in. Everybody hopes to take a vacation "all together, just like the trip to Ireland we took last Thanksgiving," before their mother died, Randy said. Or, perhaps they'll go to their big old house with the green shutters on Shelter Island, Marianne thought "WTe spend a lot of time there, every chance we get." All those decisions will be discussed, by everybody. "That's the way we do everything, get by in life," Marianne said. "We stand together.

And we're all individuals. That's why we can do all this. No matter how much public life you have, you're always a private person. You're always you." By BETH FALLON Members of the Carey clan figure they will take on the governor's mansion, the problems of publicity, of privacy, of the youngsters' growth in the same way they took the election together. Eight of the 12 kids scattered eround the citv yesterday, some with their father, while Randy, 29.

Marianne, 18, Xancy, 16, and Helen, 15, were at their Brooklyn apartment "hanging: out, not even reading," Marianne said. The children were given a holiday by the governor-elect, tamed in six long months on the campaign trail. Marianne will go back to freshman studies at Boston College today "I'm ECrapsak umv "arey Announces With PacMi the Payroll Daughter fo Wed Bv KIKI LEYATHES Governor-elect Hugh L. Carey tended to some pressing family business yesterday the engagement announcement of his pretty, 29-year-old adopted daughter, Alexandra Carey, to Henry Philip McManus assistant commissioner of the city's Sanitation Department. A January wedding is planned.

The bride-to-be is the daughter of Carey's deceased wife, Helen Owen Twohy Carey, and the laie John Twohy, who was killed during World War II. A graduate cf St. Agnes 12. -i 5 Seminary in Brooklyn and l'on-mmiiit Pnl'pcp in Tar- v' 7-4 (Continued from page 3) said here: "I never saw anybody swim up Xiagara Falls or overcome a tide." Wilson spent the afternoon with his dentist in Yonkers and will go over housekeeping chores in Albany today. Tomorrow he leaves for a two-week vacation in Sarasota, Fla.

Until he returns, said press secretary Harry 0'-Donnell, Wilson will have nothing to say about the campaign. Stunned Into Silence Manhattan District Attorney Richard Kuh apparently found his 4-to-l defeat at the hands of Democrat Robert Morgen-thau too plainful to contemplate yesterday. Engulfed in a waterfall of votes, Kuh announced through an aide that he didn't want to talk about it. Kuh refused to concede defeat and would not even send the traditional congratulations to Morgenthau. "He's not going to be in touch with him," the spokesman said.

Wilson, who signed a freedom of access bill to open up state government, invited Gov-elect Hugh Carey to send a represen rytown, X. she was a press asssitarit at the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts in Washington, D. and recently, a fuli-time worker in her father's gubernatorial campaign. Eer fiance, S2, known as Hank, is the son of Mr.

End Mrs. Henry P. McManus of Boston and Hull, Mass. Like his prospective father-in-law, he has political aspirations and was the Liberal candidate last year for the City Council in the 2d District. He was graduated from St.

Mary's School in Xorth East, and St. Alphon-sus College in Suffield, and received a master's degree in social work from Fordham University. He has been active in local community activities as a nCTI pnlnntaiiti 1 ll Alexandria Carey A January Wedding tative to Albany today to attend the first hearing on next year's state budget. The hearing will be closed to the press and public. In a telegram, Wilson said, "Article 7.

Section 1. of the State News photo by Jack Smilh Gov. Wilson goes over paper work at his Fifth Ave. office. 76 budget.

These hearings begin a representative to these hear- at 2 p.m. on Thursday. Nov. 7 in ings. Your representative may Room 113 of the State Capitol, contact the state budget di- You are hereby invited to send rector." Thomas Poster sisrant director of the Goddard-Riverdale Community Center.

His father is an electrical engineer with Bethlehem Steel Corp. in Boston. Constitution requires the gover- I nor to hold hearings on the 1975- Into Mainstream lore Women Minorities Mov elected to Congress. Her brother, Gary a Republican mother Sandra O'Connor, Hart, was elected to the Senate from Colorado. Blacks also scored a one-seat gain in the House, with Harold Ford, a state represntative from Memphis, joining 15 black incumbents who were elected for the first time in Colorado and California.

Other minority winners in yesterday's balloting were Raul Castro, 58, first Mexican-American ever elected governor of Arizona; Jerry Apodaca, 40, first candidate of Spanish heritage in more than half a century to win the governorship of New Mexico; and George Ariyoshi, 48, who captured the governorship of Hawaii in a statewide sweep by Japanese-American candidates. The Kansas and Colorado voters who endorsed the Gary Hart-Martha Keys combination were not alone in favoring candidates from the same family. Two Democratic brothers, Reps. Philip and John Burton, were reelected in Cali water Sr. of Arizona and Rep.

Barry of California. And in Pennsylvania, where veteran congressman George Goodling retired, voters chose his son, William, to succeed him. But electors in Kentucky did only half a job, choosing Csrroll Hubbard Jr. as one of their congressmen but turning down his brother, Kyle. The four Vietnam PWs who sought seats in Congress included Markharm Gartley, a former pilot who ran as an antiwar Democrat in Maine.

He fared no better than the three who ran on platforms of patriotism Senate Republican hopeful Leo K. Thorsness of South Dakota, and -GOP House candidates David Rehman of California and Quincy Collins of Georgia. The independent who won the governorship of Maine, advertising man James B. Longley, was the major winner among third party candidates. Of six John Birch Society candidates for Congress there were two winners, incumbent John B.

Rousselot of California and Dr. By JEROME CAHILL Washington, Nov. 6 (News Bureau) A Catholic nun from Arizona and a lesbian from Boston were among the winners in Tuesday's elections. Counted among the losers were four former prisoners of the Vietnam war. Women, blacks, and candidates of Spanish and Oriental heritage all registered gains in the nationwide balloting.

Eut the voters were tough on independent candidates everywhere except Maine, where an independent who formed his own party won the governorship. Female candidates, paced by Rep. Ella T. Grasso's victory in the Connecticut governor's race, won 17 House races to increase their total there by one seat. The victorious women included Susie Starp, first woman elected chief justice who became Maryland first woman district attorney; and New York's new lieutenant governor, State Sen.

Mary Anne Krupsak. Sister Clare Dunn, the nun and Elaine Xoble the lesbian who ran on a Gay Liberation ticket, won state legislative seats. She's Sister of Gary Hari Although there will be five new faces among women members of U.S. House of Representatives, voters in Maryland, Oregon and South turned down female senatorial candidates. The new House members, who will join 12 incumbents reelected to new terms, include Helen B.

Meyner and Millicent Fenwick of New Jersey, Gladys Xoone Spellman of Maryland, Marilyn Lloyd of Tennessee and Martha Keys of Kansas. All are Democrats except Mrs. Fenwick, a Republican. Mrs. Keys will go to Capitol Hill with a double distinction as half of fornia.

So was the famous Republican.