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March 8, 1978

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; i° Lifestyles if Margaret Mead: 'Life is so unpredictable ' : >• r 4)' By Marian Christy * g (Editor's note: This is the final ar~ S, tide in a two-part series on Margaret 5 a Mead, anthropologist.) ?t« Margaret Mead is in the winter of ; Jg her life. ^f*. Age, like fine wine, is often a tongue- loosener. As life winds down, there is Jess need, less pressure to hold back : strident thoughts which are honest. There is no time to consider people's reactions to shrillness. It is a wonderful release. Dr. Mead has given frankness a high priority. Now she is talking piercingly about the strained quality of living: "Life is so unpredictable," she sighs. "You buy a car which is always in the garage for repairs. If you travel, you never know where the light in the bathroom is." She is smiling at that fumbling word-picture of life in a hotel room. "You pay $30 to get a $5 gadget installed in this or that appliance. Everything is out of gauge ..." Margaret Mead is sighing. Mr. and Mrs. Dennis Espinosa (Sara Rogge) Rogge-Espinosa Marriage vows were exchanged by Salinans Sara Rogge and Dennis Espinosa, Feb. 25 at the St. John's Lutheran Church. Parents of the couple are Dr. and Mrs. Stanley C. Rogge, 136 W. Minneapolis, and Mr. and Mrs. John Espinosa, 811 Osage. Dr. Rogge and the Rev. Jearald Shaft, Lindsborg, officiated. Musicians were Mrs. Morris Carlson, Salina, and Mrs. Jearald Shaft, Lindsborg. The bride wore a chapel train gown of ivory satalustre organza and venise lace. Her mantilla-type nylon illusion veil, edged in scalloped lace, was attached to a Camelot cap of matching lace. Maid of honor was Dana Rogge with Joyce Shaver, bridesmaid. Both are of Salina. Best man and groomsman: Gene Hardesty, Salina, and Jerry Dean, Beloit. Other attendants: Preston Espinosa and Matthew Rogge, botri of Salina, and Bill Rogge, Lawrence. Salinans Mr. and Mrs. David Holmgren assisted at the reception in Lantz Hall of the church. A buffet and dance followed at the Cavalier Court with Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd Holmgren, Salina, assisting. The bride graduated from South High School and attended Bethany College. She is a key puncher in date processing at the Saline County Clerk's office. Her husband, a Central High School graduate, works for the United Parcel Service. They are at home in Salina, after a wedding trip to Breckenridge, Colo. Clark-Sloan Pamela Marie Clark, daughter .of Mrs. Ron Utter, 831 Cherokee, and Clifford Clark, Salina Rt. 1, became .the bride of Reece W. Sloan, son of Mr. and Mrs. Robert W. Sloan. 920 E. Beloit, Feb. 25 at the Bel Air Baptist Church. Receiving their vows was the Rev. J. D. Cooper, with Mrs. Nancy Ellis, Salina, musician. Lace accented the bride's ecru-colored gown, worn with a matching hat. Honor attendants were Doreen Tower, Salina, and Royce W. Sloan, Hutchinson, brother of the bridegroom. A reception followed at the home of the bride's father and stepmother. Mrs. Sloan is a Central High School graduate. The groom graduated from Ness City High School and works for Bunge Corp. He and his bride are at home at 518 W. Walnut. Paintings on display at Concordia bank CONCORDIA - An exhibit of paintings is now on display at the Clouq County Bank and Trust Company. The collection of 20 oils, watercolors and acrylics features the work of 11 artists from Kansas, Missouri, Oklahoma and Texas. The exhibit is on loan from Lawrence's Valley West Galleries, owned and managed by Marlyn Brown, a member of the Advisory Council of the Kansas Arts Commission. The paintings can be seen during banking hours in the bank's downtown lobby through March. She hammers home the fact that her mother had servants. "I've always had servants," she adds somewhat haughtily. Then she weighs the more meaningful side of her privileged background. The self-evaluation is promoted by a question about whether or not her mother was a feminist. She folds her hands again. She is regressing in thought. It's as if her spirit has left the table. Margaret Mead is at another time, in another place. "I have distinct memories of my mother working on proofs of my father's books," she says nostalgically about the late Prof. Edward S. Mead, University of Pennsylvania. "And my mother was a sociologist who did the first study on Italian immigrants. In fact we moved to Hammonton, N.J., so that my mother could be near the people she was studying." Pause. Dr. Mead has returned to the interview. "How many husbands would move so that a wife could be close to her work?" The question, obviously of major impact to a younger, more impressionable Margaret Mead, gives her pleasure now in her old age. She makes a final point about her parents and herself. "They were two generatins ahead of their time," she speculates about her parents. "So am I." Trouble goes deeper than ashtrays By Ann Landers Dear Ann: For over 35 years, I have emptied ashtrays and washed them. I am allergic to smoke, but that doesn't seem to bother my husband or many of our relatives and friends. I can turn blue before their eyes, choke, gasp and nearly pass out. They go right on smoking. 1 told my husband a few weeks ago that I refuse to empty or wash another ashtray. I am sick of dumping stinking cigars and cigarets, picking up butts from the floor of the garage, the patio, pool areas, the lawn and even the living room rug. So now I am treated like the offender because I have taken a stand. My chauvinist pig says cleaning ashtrays is part of "housekeeping." Is it? Even if it makes me sick? I need a yes or a no from you. If you aren't on my side, Toddi ' -- - --. •. : .**r .• - : Pledge KSU sororities MANHATTAN — A Salinan and three area coeds were among 16 women pledged by sororities following an open rush at Kansas State University. Included by organization are: Kappa Delta — Machelle Foster, 323 Baker; Alana Fabrizius, WaKeeney, and Diane Sorensen, Ness City, and Alpha Chi Omega — Sandra Riggs, Quinter. New Babies A son, Troy Wesley, born Feb. 6 to Mr. and Mrs. Johnny Robertson, Lawton, Okla. Grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. James Otto, 673 S. Santa Fe, and Mr. and Mrs. Norman Robertson, Lawton. Great-grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. E. J. Otto, Riley; Mrs. Stanley Roman, Chicago, and Mrs. Thelma Robertson, Lawton. it * * A daughter, Teri Candas, born Feb. 27, to Mr. and Mrs. Santos Bonilla, Topeka. Grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Fortunato Bonilla Sr., 628 W. Iron, and Mr. and Mrs. Clarence Scoggan, Beloit. Mabel Scoggan, Beloit, is the great- grandrpother. please don't answer. I already have more trouble than I can handle. — Asphyxiated. Dear Phyx: I am on your side, but I don't think it's going to make a shred of difference to the chauvinist pig. Something tells me the trouble in your house goes deeper than the ashtrays. Have you considered discussing the entire situation with a professional? Please do. * * * Dear Ann: I realize the War Between the States is over, but I was really bugged by that Virginia gal who hates Pennsylvania. I came from Pennsylvania to the Washington-Virginia area 19 years ago as a bride. If my husband and I weren't so much in love we never would have made it. Wherever you go in northern Virginia you have to stand in line either to. buy it, return it, or try to see it. I've shopped the same stores for years and very few clerks remember me or show Silver day event to honor Dyers Mr. and Mrs. Chet Dyer (Joyce Bushell), 429 N. Broadway, formerly of Lucas, will observe their 25th wedding anniversary with open house from 1 to 4 p.m. Saturday at their home. Hosts for all friends and relatives are their four children: Mrs. Mike (Marcia) Conn, Aurora, Neb.; Mike, Salina, and Denny, Ellis, and their spouses, and Cathy, a senior at Lucas High School. The celebrants were wed Feb. 28, 1953, in Fort Smith, Ark., where Dyer was stationed with the U.S. Army. They moved here about a month ago from Lucas. Dyer works for Bemis Construction Co., Great Bend. His wife works at Shalimar Plaza Nursing Home. There are two granddaughters. Club Calendar THURSDAY AAUW board, 3:45 p.m., Carolyn Milleson, East Country Club Road. Change of location. Mu Chapter of Delta Kappa Gamma Sorority, 7 p.m. bake auction and tasting tables (international foods), First National Handi-Bank, Mid State Mall. Program provided by world fellowship and hostess committee: Nomination and Scholarship. Conclaves of Kappa Kappa Iota Sorority: Phi — 6:30 p.m. dinner meeting, New Brunswick Hotel, Lindsborg; visit Maleta Forsberg's studio, and Psi — 7:30 p.m., Mrs. Andrew Deckert, 2065 Quincy. Legion of Moose, 7:30 p.m. meeting, Moose Home. Cocktail hour and dinner to follow. TOPS Kan., 210, 9:30 a.m., All-Star Lanes. New members welcome. Will Power Diet Club, 6:15 p.m., YWCA. TOPS Kan., 125 (Menu Minders), 6:30-7:15 p.m. weigh-in, the University United Methodist Church. IOOF Lodge 28, 8 p.m., IOOF Hall, 401 E. Walnut. Eller Bros. Barber & Beauty Supply presents SPRING FLING Sunday, March 12th, 10 A.M. to 4 P.M. $ 10°° per ticket Featuring Guest Artists: Leon Deges—Grainfield Dwayne Herrs—McPherson Barry Miller—Russell Jim Miller—Salina Wayne Reif—Hesston George Sleezer—Emporia showing the latest In Spring and Summer Styles. C Eller Bros. Invitational Golf Tourney Monday, March 13,1978 Register Sunday at Spring Fling ELLER BROS. 132 S. 4th Salina Barber and Beauty Suppliers 913-825-4191 any interest in giving me (or anyone else) decent service. If I had my druthers I'd druther be anyplace but here.— Washington Post Reader Dear Reader: No matter where you'd druther be, you are in Virginia and so are lots of other people who tell me they love it. For your own peace of mind, I hope you will make a positive effort to adjust. It must be awful hating where you live. * * * Dear Ann: The girl I'm going to marry (she's 24, I'm 23) admitted to one serious love affair before she met me. She has gone with several guys but had only one real sweetheart. The problem: She won't tell me who it was. If we are going to have a good life together I think I am entitled to know all about her past - and I mean all. It's hell when I run into one of her former flames and I keep wondering, "Is he the guy?" I've told her all about my past and held nothing back - including names and places. Is she playing fair? — Clean Slate Wanted. Dear Big Mouth: Just because you came up with the names and numbers of all the players doesn't mean your fiancee should do the same.She has confessed there was someone before you, now quit nagging for details. It ain't gentlemanly. Confidential to Throw Me a Lifeline, Annie: Paste these, words in your hatband and glue them on your mirror: "You cannot prevent birds of sorrow from flying overhead but you don't have to let them build nests in your hair." Auxiliary will have spring tea Asbury Hospital Auxiliary's annual spring recognition tea is scheduled for 2 p.m. Sunday at the First United Methodist Church. On the agenda are election and installation of officers and recognition of volunteers as a group. Special musical entertainment will be furnished by the Marymount College Chamber Singers. Mrs. L. 0. Austin is chairman of the tea committee, also consisting of Mrs. Dean Owens, Mrs. Eugene Crist and Mrs. Larry Marshall. During the past year, the auxiliary's projects for the hospital totaled $32,645. Included were $25,000 toward improvements of the therapy unit; $7,500 for redecorating the first floor of the student nurses' residence and $145 for eight panic buttons for the Intensive care unit. Margaret Mead as she appeared in Samoa in 1928. 10l«IUrlh»r>i$l. Phone 827-2581 medley's Washington Delicious Apples 12 ...For 99' Fresh Crisp Cabbage ...tb. 19 C Yellow Onions 3-Lb. 39 C Ruby Red Grapefruit 59° I "short Ribs u, 49 Fresh Ground Hamburger JOURNAL ADS PAY INTRODUCTORY OFFER NO. (3) JEANS for GALS 3 DAYS ONLY, Thur., FH., sat. 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