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DAILYPRESSTSEWPOKTNEWS SUNDAY, OCTOBER 7,1973 Bll ADVICE FROM ANN Can Go Anywhere, Even In Bathroom and actually doing something. I'm depending on you to save me, Ann. Thanks. Still Praying In Racine Dear Praying: You didn't hit her, did you? Well, then you're still in the ball game or at least I hope you are. From now on, watch your mouth, Buster.

Don't make any threats or promises that you don't mean to keep. her myself? Please don't advise me to "butt out" because I can't. Sleepless Nights Dear Friend: A great deal of cancer research is being done in laboratories all over the world. As you know; leukemia is cancer of the blood. Some leukemia victims respond better to the new drugs than others.

Last year's Courage Award from the American Cancer Society went to a handsome young man from New Jersey, age 22. He has had leukemia for eight years and is the picture of health. I believe your friend should be told, but not by you. Show her parents this column and suggest that they ask their daughter's doctor for guidance. Bible Dear Ann Landers: I don't know how to put this in polite language, but some problems just can't be wor- ded differently, and this is one.

'Do you think it is all right to keep a Bible on top of a toilet? My husband and our three children and my father-in-law had a big argument about this and I lost 6 to 1. I believe a bathroom is for the stated purpose and the Holy Book does not belong in there. My father-in-law says the Bible is the word of God, and God knows what goes oh all over and nothing human or natural is offensive to Him. I say one wouldn't entertain people or have visits with friends in. there, so why God? I realize God is everywhere, but I just don't feel that a $30 gold-edge Bible belongs on top of a "gem" of a boyfriend belted her one and split her lip.

asked if he might change after marriage you replied, "Yes probably for the worse." You went on to say a split lip before marriage usually means a fractured skull later. I'm afraid that letter and your answer might have wrecked my life. Last week I had a fight with my girl and lost my temper. I threatened to strike her. She was terrified and now she refuses to talk to me.

I admit I behaved im-maturely and I'm ashamed of myself. Deep down I know I would never hit a girl. She reads your column every day and I'm afraid if she saw that letter and your advice I've had it. Please emphasize the difference between threatening commode. How would you vote? From Louisiana Dear The Bible was written to be read.

Wherever people in the house read, that's where the Bible should be. I vote with them. Dear Ann Landers: My best friend has leukemia. Her parents told me the nature of her illness and asked me not to say anything. The girl doesn't know.

I think this is wrong. I believe she should be told right' away. Every day is precious to her. Especially now. Although she looks well and feels no pain she knows something is drastically wrong.

I can tell. When WILL they break the awful news to this girl? Should I tactfully encourage the parents to tell her soon? Or should I go ahead and tell 1 I I im-- 4 I i 4v i Harvard i Tackle Likes 1 Classical jj Singing By DAVE LANGWORTHY (C) 1973 Christian Science Publ.Soc. CAMBRIDGE MASS. While most of his Harvard teammates spent i their summers loading bricks to round into shape for the Crimson football season, tackle Mike O'Hare was sharpening hislenor by singing men's polyphonic classical music. i The 6 ft.

2 220-pound 'O'Hare toured Europe this i summer as a member of the Harvard Glee Club. The continent-covering junket included a performance in Rome under the ''direction of Leonard Bern-. stein and a stop in Cam- bridge, England, for a choral and orchestra presen-, tation in King's Chapel. I 1 1 was like a pilgrimage," Mike says enthusiastically. "We were performing a lot of the pieces where they were originally intended to be sung or in the places that in- spired them.

it wasn't really a waste of time as far as foot-! ball was concerned. I carried isometric equipment i along in my suitcase and probably got as much ac- physically as I ever did working construc- tion during the summer." I O'Hare is a senior on i Coach Joe Restic's squad and is expected to anchor a defensive line that Restic" I characterizes as one of the strengths of his ball club. But when he leaves the foot--; ball field, Mike's attention shifts from the X's and O's 'l on play charts to the stage lefts and entrance cues ('! found in a script. In addition I to singing, he has performed in summer stock and in several Harvard dramatic and musical comedy produc- tions. I "Americans seem to have the funny idea that football i and the arts don't mix," Mike says, in obvious disagreement with the J- notion.

He feels the Europeans generally have a healthier attitude viewing sports and the arts as a per-i fectly normal combination of interests. AirDITBOIlSI3Tl(Cfliriigj fm. MEW The Crimson's "Music Man," Mike O'Hare, in Harvard Stadium. in your stage role at all times, nobody, in the audience will believe you. "And teamwork is important, too.

If you have personal dislikes on a football team and you make them known, it can destroy the morale of the whole team. The cast is just like the team if there's friction it can spoil the whole production." Mike was well-versed in the ways of big-time football long before he came to Harvard. A product of Chicago's Mendel High School, he saw no less than 10 of his team-mates accept football scholarships to Big Ten schools. And he Turned down offers from A close to 50 schools to come to the Cambridge campus. He and the other seniors on this year's Crimson squad represent the first crop of athletes to 'be schooled in Coach Joe Restic's methods through their entire Harvard football careers.

"Stepping in as a new coach is like adopting a 14-year-old kid." O'Hare says Restic's problems in his first three seasons at Harvard. "But this year, finally, nobody can talk about 'the days back when. when they disagree with the coach. Everybody has been trained the same way. "A coach is like a director in a lot of ways.

He's got a limited amount of time to put a team together, and he can't tolerate somebody who says he wants to do things his way. He's got to be a benevolent dictator. "I know a lot of athletes would disagree with me, but I think it's got to be that way. Besides, it's kind of a challenge to do things somebody else's way. You really prove you're disciplined if you succeed." Restic calls O'Hare's acting ability "his biggest asset." And he hopes, the talented senior will be a leading man for the Crimson this fall.

Don't flunk your chemistry test. Love -is more than one set of glands calling to another. If you have trouble making a distinction you need Ann's booklet, "Love Or Sex And How To Tell The Difference." Send a long, self-addressed, stamped envelope with your request and 35 cents in coin to Ann Landers in care of the Daily Press, Box 746, Newport News, Va. 23607. Dear -Ann Landers: The other day you printed a letter from a girl whose I jj i (Sill New Lifestyle As Teacher Fascinates Ex-Nun "We visited a little village back in the Welsh coal mining country," he explains, "and they had an all-' male choir of about 90 of the most beautiful voices I had ever heard.

"Now these guys were all coal miners and Rugby players some of the strongest men I've ever met. But they thought nothing of getting off work and practicing their Rugby for a couple of hours, then going inside and practicing choral numbers. It's a real thrill to see a combination of strength and beauty like that." Mike feels his training as a football player has helped his acting, and acting hasn't exactly hurt his football playing. "Getting ready for a game is a lot like getting into a role," he explains. "Both require all your concentration.

If you're not in a football game at all times, somebody will run over you, and if you're not completely strong-willed and to teaching. "I have been accused of being powerful, overwhelming," Dr. Gardner said. "A male-oriented society just can't accept that. I have "my feet on the ground, and it's not always appreciated." She left the Sisters of Mercy Convent in Cumberland, R.I., last August when' she realized she couldn't resolve the questions she had about herself and her status in the order.

"I think the direction of my life changed because the direction of education and thrusts have changed. It doesn't mean that I'm turned off on the church. That has nothing to do with it at all," Dr. Gardner said. "It's just that my Striking (gPM, 28 diamonds dedication to education is stronger at this point than my dedication to service in the church." As a teaching nun, Dr.

Gardner said she often felt thwarted by the religious community. "I saw myself doing some different things in the community if they would let me," she said. "As time went on, it became much obvious they weren't going to let me." Dr. "Gardner earned a HARVEST DOVER, N.H. (AP) -Things that seem ordinary to most career women are extraordinary to Jeanne Gardner.

For the first time in her life, she is financially independent. She comes home to her own apartm nt filled bright clothes, skiing and sailing equipment. She goes out at night with both male and female friends, and she can take off for a European vacation anytime wants. Jeanne Gardner is 40 'years old, but she began her -Current lifestyle just 10 mon- iths ago. For 22 years before that, ishe was a nun.

she is assistant i professor of education at the University of New Hampshire in Durham. She is SUPER BRIGHT IN-LINE PICTURE TUBE is found in all master's degree from Rhode Island College and a doctorate from the University of Connecticut while she was still in the order. She used the time at school to make up her mind about leaving the Sisters of Mercy. "My belief in the church has not changed" since she left, she said. "My stand on birth control very definitely has." SALE now six-' diagonal solid-state portables and table models.

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